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Is it needy if I text my crush every day? watch

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    Even if it's a bit of small talk? Does it come across as needy or clingy? I don't message her every minute of the day, maybe if something crosses my mind I'll send a text and we'd talk for a few minutes but that's it. Is it better to wait a few days in between and then initiate contact?
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    your crush? yes it is very clingy. if she was you gf, then not so much, but a crush makes it seem like stalking.
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    if she conversates back in a proper way then no it's not clingy.
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    If it's always you initiating then it seems as if she's not into you. Plus the fact that you only talk for a few minutes highlights this as well. Talk to her in person and ask her on a date. If she says no then at least you know. If you don't want to do that then leave it a few days and see if she initiates a conversation. If she doesn't, she's not interested.

    Just messaging her when it crosses your mind isn't going to get you anywhere, either ask her out or move on.
 
 
 
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