Hey there! Sign in to join this conversationNew here? Join for free

New bunch of friends, how to attract any of the girls Watch

    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    I've recently joined a tennis club just for fun. I go there once per week, so far I've been twice (well kind of like 1 and a half times). So I barely know anyone really.

    I've added a couple of people on facebook that I met there (one girl, one guy). I get the impression the girl might be interested in me, but then again, I tend to think that about all girls...

    I spoke to her a tiny bit on fb the other night, not about anything much and it didn't last long. But I'll be seeing her at the club again in a couple days and I think we all have a night out planned in a couple weeks.

    What should I do to attract this girl? (or any of the other many girls that go there)

    Should I try chatting her up online and ask her out already? Or do I get to know her in person a bit first? Maybe I wait until the night out before I properly make a move? Like when we're all drunk and merry, dancing and all that

    Part of me feels pressured to make a move 'now'... but I've known plenty of guys to pull girls they've known for several weeks (or months) after they first met. For example, a couple of people hooked up at my work's Christmas party despite having known each other for weeks or months beforehand... and in both cases, it was the girls who went after the guys
    Offline

    2
    ReputationRep:
    Talk to her in person, even just ask her out on a casual date like a coffee or something?
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by jessicabeth)
    Talk to her in person, even just ask her out on a casual date like a coffee or something?
    I'm tempted to either do that or wait a couple weeks for this night out we all have planned I get the impression the latter would work better, but that would mean waiting longer...
    Offline

    2
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by adamff73642)
    I'm tempted to either do that or wait a couple weeks for this night out we all have planned I get the impression the latter would work better, but that would mean waiting longer...

    Sounds like a good plan to me!! Good things are worth the wait
 
 
 
Reply
Submit reply
TSR Support Team

We have a brilliant team of more than 60 Support Team members looking after discussions on The Student Room, helping to make it a fun, safe and useful place to hang out.

Updated: March 1, 2016
  • See more of what you like on The Student Room

    You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

  • Poll
    What's your favourite Christmas sweets?
  • See more of what you like on The Student Room

    You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

  • The Student Room, Get Revising and Marked by Teachers are trading names of The Student Room Group Ltd.

    Register Number: 04666380 (England and Wales), VAT No. 806 8067 22 Registered Office: International House, Queens Road, Brighton, BN1 3XE

    Quick reply
    Reputation gems: You get these gems as you gain rep from other members for making good contributions and giving helpful advice.