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    So me and my girlfriend had a few problems for a few months due to being very jealous, very protective and very obsessive. Also I found it hard to trust her. Anyways I've finally managed to overcome all that and now it really doesn't bother me what she does or whatever. Obviously there's still boundaries but I'm not as bad as I was.

    I did give her the chance to call things off with me but she was absolutely sure she wanted to give things another go with me. The thing she doesn't seem interested what so ever, when we're not together she's always on her Facebook, barely texting me, barely making an effort on text if she actually does reply.

    My question is why does she want to be with me when she acts like she's not bothered at all? I'd rather someone just say they don't want to be with me and stop wasting my time. I'm sick of making all the effort. What shall I do?
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    Talk to her about it. No one here is going to be able to give you the answer. And if you can't have an open and honest conversation with your girlfriend about stuff like this then sorry to say it your relationship is already doomed to failure.
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    Agree with Sophie (PRSOM). You need to be able to openly communicate with your partner, so talk to her about how you're feeling and why you feel like you do. If she cares about you, she'll listen. If she doesn't listen and carries on the way she is, you know she doesn't care.
 
 
 
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