Bf got ripped off cause of my shopping addiction

Well if he was with you then I would just reassure him that it wasn't you who wiped out the £400, but I would find out who did take thet £400 out.

Why on earth did he give you his credit card, you just don't do that.

Aw that's unlucky. I'm sure once he's had a bit of time to cool off he'll realise that it was just unfortunate and that the blame lies with the person who took the money rather than you. Is he going to be able to get the money back at any point do you think?
Try to let him know that you do care about the money going missing and you are really upset about it. From what you said, he seems to be under the impression that you don't care. I know that's not the case, but sometimes when people remain calm and composed after something bad has happened it can seem like they just don't care as much.

La redoute have 2 diff sites one is a trust worthy one the other one is a rip off one, what browser do u use?

That's absolutely exact. I am like this all the time. And that's what he said to me, it seems that i don't care. But that's not the case. I just am of the firm belief that it will all get sorted out.

If you have a proper shopping addiction should he really be indulging it? (just curious )

Naw... He's well off. Plus it's not like I was overdoing it or nefin. And like I said, he's the one who insisted to pay.

Well maybe it's about time you started to show some actual concern...?
And do what you can to help him in a practical manner, rather than just reassure him that it'll get sorted out. Because it won't get sorted out without someone actively fixing the situation.

But he obviously still cares about wasting money so I'd be careful about relying on his wealth too much. Besides, I think you're kind of missing the point lol.

If you have a proper shopping addiction should he really be indulging it? (just curious )

Meh, its his fault. If he didn't want to run the risk of credit card fraud he shouldn't have let his credit card be used for online shopping. He shouldn't be angry at you, he should be angry at himself for telling you to go shopping on it.

He didn't say I was the one who took it. He said it all happened cause of my bad shopping habit.

Am I the only one sat here thinking he really ought to be on the phone to the credit card people? They have a system to deal with fraud you know... chances are, he may even get the money back.

OP - how much did you personally spend on the CC? I'm assuming £400 is what has gone missing through fraudalent means.