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    (Original post by contradicta)
    The attitudes on this thread freak me out

    I'm a girl. Let's say I sleep with 2/3 different people a year, by like 24ish that would add up to 15. I don't see what the big deal is, not everyone thinks sex is something sacred.
    2/3 different people a year?
    What about a relationship?...
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    (Original post by EphemeralLove)
    2/3 different people a year?
    What about a relationship?...
    Dodged the question lol,you've been exposed.
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    (Original post by whorace)
    Many people here don't have sex outside of relationships (or at all) so the thought of going through 2/3 relationships every year means there is seriously something wrong with you :lol: I do agree with you though, there are 365 days in a year, if you only have 2/3 ons I can see how that adds up.
    Yeah not really into relationships atm, I wanna live my life first before settling down.

    ONS are super common among students though (well at least my friends and students ive met) so I expected the attitude on thestudentroom to be more chill.
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    (Original post by EphemeralLove)
    2/3 different people a year?
    What about a relationship?...
    Not everyone wants to be in a relationship.
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    (Original post by contradicta)
    Not everyone wants to be in a relationship.
    No idea where you got 2/3 from. OP said the girl in question had 5 people last year and most likely more people a year.

    It sounds dandy if it's 2/3 people a year.
    But it's not realistic.

    Most times it's a monthly if not weekly habit. And then a dry spell.

    Plus 5 people a year is like...a new person every other month. Jeez.
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    (Original post by contradicta)
    Yeah not really into relationships atm, I wanna live my life first before settling down.

    ONS are super common among students though (well at least my friends and students ive met) so I expected the attitude on thestudentroom to be more chill.
    What do you mean to be more chill?
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    What do you mean to be more chill?
    I expected young people to have a more liberal attitude to sex.
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    (Original post by contradicta)
    Yeah not really into relationships atm, I wanna live my life first before settling down.

    ONS are super common among students though (well at least my friends and students ive met) so I expected the attitude on thestudentroom to be more chill.
    Let's be honest anyone with basic social skills is getting laid at uni, if they want to that is, and they usually do. People here rarely go to clubs or bars and would rather masturbate alone and then claim the moral high ground :lol:
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    (Original post by Bealzibub)
    wouldn't touch even with a barge pole
    :rofl:

    (Original post by xobeauty)
    Dramatic much! Just goes to show what this society has come to. I like a guy with standards and a little bit a morals, shockers.
    Stay classy gurl.
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    (Original post by DanB1991)
    But three? Three people....

    I think that pretty much excludes 99% of the 20+ male population

    I think the average for guys is around 5 at 21.... never mind by the time they're 30...
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    I wouldn't touch a guy whose had over three, so totally feel ya.

    Is you're count low? It better be or else you have no reason to be picky.
    In your 20's its very possible to have morals / standards (ie in serious relationships) and to still have slept with more than 3 people. I think it might be best if you just don't ask prospective partners.
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    Dramatic much! Just goes to show what this society has come to. I like a guy with standards and a little bit a morals, shockers.
    I like girls who aren't self-rightous judgemental douchenozzles

    Oh no sexual liberation, the downfall of all civilisation! Get a grip.
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    (Original post by RobML)
    I like girls who aren't self-rightous judgemental douchnozzles
    I'm sorry did I ask and what makes you think I give a **** about what you like?
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    I'm sorry did I ask and what makes you think I give a **** about what you like?
    I stated my opinion about girls just like you stated your opinion about guys. What's the problem?
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    (Original post by RobML)
    I stated my opinion about girls just like you stated your opinion about guys. What's the problem?
    why are you quoting me for?
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    I'm 19 and I've slept with 3 people since I lost my virginity aged 18. 3 people at 19 makes me a nun compared to a lot of my friends, who have slept with double figures.
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    why are you quoting me for?
    Because I was responding to you?
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    (Original post by RobML)
    I stated my opinion about girls just like you stated your opinion about guys. What's the problem?
    Lol not really, you called her an arrogant prude you can't get annoyed when she responds.
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    (Original post by whorace)
    Lol not really, you called her an arrogant prude you can't get annoyed when she responds.
    It's true.

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    (Original post by contradicta)
    I expected young people to have a more liberal attitude to sex.
    Since when does liberal=no standards or morals at all?

    :rolleyes:
 
 
 
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