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    (Original post by RobML)
    Firstly, morals = limits is incredibly simplistic. The limits depend on what is seen as "too much". What logic is there behind you suggesting sleeping with 15 people is "too much"? If that's all down to your personal morality then it means nothing to say promiscuity is immoral, rather than to say you think it is. Secondly, if you take a criteria of a moral action to be it isn't "too much" then you run into stupid examples like watching too much tv is immoral, or driving too far in your car is immoral.
    It's simplistic because there's no need to over-complicate it!

    Limits. The word in itself means simplicity, a few, moderation.

    It's too much within a certain amount of time and the amount of time suggested in the OP (a couple years since she moved out her family's house) says it's become some kind of lifestyle. Which is sad. Look at this video:

    https://youtu.be/R65MbX-wn4Q

    That's what'll happen to people! I've overheard and BEEN IN conversations
    where the men are describing the girl's vagina!
    I don't have to feel paranoid that someone will talk about me like that!
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    (Original post by EphemeralLove)
    Principles=a set of values someone lives their life by.
    (Original post by EphemeralLove)
    Is there anything wrong with that?

    Sleeping around "casually" shows you don't have principles, or proper ones anyway It's not a big deal but it's not something I'd defend either.
    Everything is wrong with that...it makes you a self righteous, judgemental and a douchewhatever.

    That's how twisted society is, you have standards and a little bit of expectations that's not ok. But it's ok to slob on everyone's knob like corn on the cob.
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    (Original post by RobML)
    Again, how does sleeping around show someone has no principles? If anything it just shows they don't subscribe to the same morals principles as you
    Ignore anon who's hiding an overweight spotty schoolgirl who's jealous that I get male attention and answer this:

    Do you honestly wake up and say, "I will try not to do this today. I want to be a good person. I want to be better, etc."??? Do you? Do you think someone who has 15+ men run through her feels that way about herself? Sure you get temporary pleasure but how do you seriously look at yourself in the mirror the next day knowing you have to brush your teeth with your finger and take a cab home after not bathing even after sex because you slept at a stranger's house!?
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    (Original post by EphemeralLove)
    It's too much within a certain amount of time and the amount of time suggested in the OP
    But you're still not explaining why it's too much
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    [b]

    Everything is wrong with that...it makes you a self righteous, judgemental and a douchewhatever.

    That's how twisted society is, you have standards and a little bit of expectations that's not ok. But it's ok to slob on everyone's knob like corn on the cob.
    :lol: Excellent. You should watch the video link I put up! :eek2:
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    (Original post by EphemeralLove)
    Ignore anon who's hiding an overweight spotty schoolgirl who's jealous that I get male attention and answer this:

    Do you honestly wake up and say, "I will try not to do this today. I want to be a good person. I want to be better, etc."??? Do you? Do you think someone who has 15+ men run through her feels that way about herself? Sure you get temporary pleasure but how do you seriously look at yourself in the mirror the next day knowing you have to brush your teeth with your finger and take a cab home after not bathing even after sex because you slept at a stranger's house!?
    But why does sleeping with 15 men mean you're not a good person? arghh
    A lot of people have gotten past the stage of being ashamed about fully consensual sex
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    (Original post by EphemeralLove)
    Ignore anon who's hiding an overweight spotty schoolgirl who's jealous that I get male attention and answer this:

    Do you honestly wake up and say, "I will try not to do this today. I want to be a good person. I want to be better, etc."??? Do you? Do you think someone who has 15+ men run through her feels that way about herself? Sure you get temporary pleasure but how do you seriously look at yourself in the mirror the next day knowing you have to brush your teeth with your finger and take a cab home after not bathing even after sex because you slept at a stranger's house!?
    I'm a guy and you're a catfish,that's why you keep dodging questions. You've been exposed. Goodnight
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    [b]

    Everything is wrong with that...it makes you a self righteous, judgemental and a douchewhatever.

    That's how twisted society is, you have standards and a little bit of expectations that's not ok. But it's ok to slob on everyone's knob like corn on the cob.
    You're free to live in Saudi Arabia if you want

    That's how twisted society is, you have standards and a little bit of expectations that's not ok. But it's ok to slob on everyone's knob like corn on the cob.
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Straw_man
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    (Original post by EphemeralLove)
    If you keep reading my comment and not omitting or obtusely stop reading you would know.

    Because it's shameful. I also put a second comment since you keep multi-quoting me.

    What kind of lifestyle do you live and what kind of self esteem do you have? Particularly for a woman, remember I'm not speaking about you so you jumping in so indignantly is guilty conscience. But still I'm speaking about the character in the OP. And girls like this exist!

    It's unsanitary, has to be. What situations are you putting yourself in? Carrying those traits to the workplace as well, you'll show your true colors and find a hard time. Perhaps you'll sleep with a colleague and ruin your career. I mean if you have no set of principles to live by who's to say what you do.
    Yes, maybe the girl in the OP has been affected negatively by the ways in which she's gone around sleeping with these men, But it DOES NOT follow that promiscuity is inherently immoral. It's all about how you go about it.
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    (Original post by RobML)
    You're free to live in Saudi Arabia if you want
    I know right, no sex, no alcohol, no bacon, getting your hands cut off cus you stole a mars bar, sounds like paradise
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    (Original post by EphemeralLove)
    Oh please! And the white western world is seen as a cesspit for debauchery, as "civilized" as it claims to be!
    People are certainly much happier and freer in the western world than they are in Saudi Arabia lol
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    (Original post by RobML)
    People are certainly much happier and freer in the western world than they are in Saudi Arabia lol
    Says the suicide, crime, depression, drop out, single parent, welfare, unemployment rate

    :yawn:
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    (Original post by RobML)
    You're free to live in Saudi Arabia if you want



    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Straw_man
    Who are you? Ill live my ass right here thank you.
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    (Original post by RobML)
    Yes, maybe the girl in the OP has been affected negatively by the ways in which she's gone around sleeping with these men, But it DOES NOT follow that promiscuity is inherently immoral. It's all about how you go about it.
    "How you go about it?" Teach me your ways?



    It's very sad like...find something to do in your spare time, not someone to do.

    In the end I said it's about having principles. You also never answered the question about if you wake up telling yourself you'll try be a better person, you'll try to refrain from doing a, b, c. And why wouldn't you, is beyond me.
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    (Original post by EphemeralLove)
    Says the suicide, crime, depression, drop out, single parent, welfare, unemployment rate

    :yawn:
    Better then most places and it's more open about it. Welfare? Better than poverty. Single parents? Better than abusive husbands. Depression? Because we actually recognise mental illness. Unemployment? Yeah because you have to work 6 jobs just to live in poor places.
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    (Original post by EphemeralLove)
    Says the suicide, crime, depression, drop out, single parent, welfare, unemployment rate

    :yawn:
    SA doesn't report accurately on suicide and depression, etc, lol

    SA deliberately excludes the majority of it's population from even receiving welfare lol

    slavery and other forced labour doesn't count as employment lol
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    (Original post by whorace)
    Better then most places and it's more open about it. Welfare? Better than poverty. Single parents? Better than abusive husbands. Depression? Because we actually recognise mental illness. Unemployment? Yeah because you have to work 6 jobs just to live in poor places.
    Ok yes thanks for explaining the situations the West in fact does face. However it doesn't take away the fact that the West still has these issues?
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    (Original post by RobML)
    SA doesn't report accurately on suicide and depression, etc, lol

    SA deliberately excludes the majority of it's population from even receiving welfare lol

    slavery and other forced labour doesn't count as employment lol
    Instead of comparing the lesser of two evils to defend your point, just answer, do you wake up telling yourself you'll try to be a better person?
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    (Original post by whorace)
    Better then most places and it's more open about it. Welfare? Better than poverty. Single parents? Better than abusive husbands. Depression? Because we actually recognise mental illness. Unemployment? Yeah because you have to work 6 jobs just to live in poor places.
    You rekt her catfishing ass
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    (Original post by EphemeralLove)
    "How you go about it?" Teach me your ways?



    It's very sad like...find something to do in your spare time, not someone to do.

    In the end I said it's about having principles. You also never answered the question about if you wake up telling yourself you'll try be a better person, you'll try to refrain from doing a, b, c. And why wouldn't you, is beyond me.
    My principles regarding sex are to use protection, and always make sure there's full consent given. Surely those are more important principles than some completely arbitrary limit on sexual partners?
 
 
 
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