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Difference between a man who isn't interested and one who is pretending to be Watch

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    What would you say would be the difference?

    When my now husband first met me he ignored me. He showed no interest except to ask if I was single. I was positive he didn't like me. Then I noticed he would be friendly to everyone but me. He wouldn't even acknowledge me. The secrets as he was just different with me.

    What would you say the differences would be? How would you be different with a girl that you were hiding your feelings for and one you just weren't interested in?
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    Guys who ask if you're single straight up are usually the no-gos.

    A guy who tends to be a keep develops a friendship with you, and at some point subtly asks if you're seeing anyone since they enjoy speaking to you or whatnot, but this doesn't happen to everyone so don't take my word for it!

    What was your relationship with your husband like prior to marriage? Did you have to think hard during conversations instead of letting it flow naturally?

    Quote me with your response and I'll discuss this with you further.
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    Guys who ask if you're single straight up are usually the no-gos.

    A guy who tends to be a keep develops a friendship with you, and at some point subtly asks if you're seeing anyone since they enjoy speaking to you or whatnot, but this doesn't happen to everyone so don't take my word for it!

    What was your relationship with your husband like prior to marriage? Did you have to think hard during conversations instead of letting it flow naturally?

    Quote me with your response and I'll discuss this with you further.
    Guys who ask straight up are either forward or very desperate, I don't even ask most of the time I just assume they don't if they don't talk about them. Don't fall into the trap of being the guy who becomes friends under the pretence that she will develop feelings for you, she likely won't and you'll both feel rejected.
 
 
 
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