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    Why do guys like it when a girl is 'innocent'? i mean in terms of the girl being attractive but being still a virgin while having done some other stuff. It also turns the guy on when the girl is a virgin but is really dirty minded?

    my question is why? as a girl i wonder
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    As usual it's likely just an ego thing, being the only one you've opened your legs to must them really special.

    I don't really care, and I prefer girls with a bit more experience.
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    (Original post by whorace)
    As usual it's likely just an ego thing, being the only one you've opened your legs to must them really special.

    I don't really care, and I prefer girls with a bit more experience.
    i guess. yeah im not saying all guys are like that but most guys i talk to are
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    It's probably desire for enthusiastic partners without fearing the possible disappointing the girls (or less fear of disappointment I should say, instead of implying none at all.)
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    (Original post by goldie56)
    It's probably desire for enthusiastic partners without fearing the possible disappointing the girls (or less fear of disappointment I should say, instead of implying none at all.)
    If you're that worried about your performance you're already a disappointment
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    You get a kick out of it.
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    that's a good question. humans are weird.

    on an unrelated but still related, there's something weird about people who like girls who dress up as school girls... or in porn a top category is 'teens' even worse like 'little teens' or something. hm.
    tbh i think Freud's unconscious theory may have some validity here.

    i know a lot people enjoy the dressing up/role play and probably dont think about actual underage school girls but what is it about school girls?
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    I don't think people rationalise it to themselves, so the "it's an ego trip" or "they know they won't disappoint the girl" are illogical.
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    (Original post by chickenfoot)
    that's a good question. humans are weird.

    on an unrelated but still related, there's something weird about people who like girls who dress up as school girls... or in porn a top category is 'teens' even worse like 'little teens' or something. hm.
    tbh i think Freud's unconscious theory may have some validity here.

    i know a lot people enjoy the dressing up/role play and probably dont think about actual underage school girls but what is it about school girls?
    I suppose it's the forbidden fruit effect, especially in the variation that involves the 'schoolgirl' being a Catholic/from a Catholic school.
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    So they have the satisfaction of doing dirty stuff with an untouched woman and then leave her
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    (Original post by samina_ay)
    So they have the satisfaction of doing dirty stuff with an untouched woman and then leave her
    thats true, probably why im hesitant to sleep with a guy
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    Most of the guys i know want the complete opposite. Sex is much more fun when you both know what you're doing, what you want, what you like, than when you're ''innocent'' and don't know wtf you're doing. If I met a guy who wanted that I'd suspect he was very insecure about his sexual abilities or was just a huge douche sexist who thinks women's value is based on virginity.
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    (Original post by emilyjc17)
    Most of the guys i know want the complete opposite. Sex is much more fun when you both know what you're doing, what you want, what you like, than when you're ''innocent'' and don't know wtf you're doing. If I met a guy who wanted that I'd suspect he was very insecure about his sexual abilities or was just a huge douche sexist who thinks women's value is based on virginity.
    its not the fact that a guy might want me to be a virgin. its this so called 'innocence' that comes with it that guys like
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    its not the fact that a guy might want me to be a virgin. its this so called 'innocence' that comes with it that guys like
    It is the fact that they want you to be a virgin - virginity and sexual innocence are essentially the same thing, interchangeable terms.
    As I said, if a guy really wants that he's probably insecure or a douche basing his opinion of women on whether or not they still have a hymen.
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    (Original post by emilyjc17)
    It is the fact that they want you to be a virgin - virginity and sexual innocence are essentially the same thing, interchangeable terms.
    As I said, if a guy really wants that he's probably insecure or a douche basing his opinion of women on whether or not they still have a hymen.
    I wouldn't necessarily agree. While this may be true in some cases, it can be plainly attractive for a girl to be innocent. It's can also have a lot to do with wanting to be in the dominant position (sometimes to fit a stereotype), and an inexperienced girl is less likely to want to be dominant over you.

    Edit: or the guy may simply not want a slut. I wouldn't.
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    (Original post by Nadile)
    I wouldn't necessarily agree. While this may be true in some cases, it can be plainly attractive for a girl to be innocent. It's can also have a lot to do with wanting to be in the dominant position (sometimes to fit a stereotype), and an inexperienced girl is less likely to want to be dominant over you.
    Why would a girl with sexual experience be more dominant?
    What does dominance mean to you? Do you simply mean more knowledgeable?
    Why is it 'plainly attractive' for a girl to be innocent?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Why do guys like it when a girl is 'innocent'? i mean in terms of the girl being attractive but being still a virgin while having done some other stuff. It also turns the guy on when the girl is a virgin but is really dirty minded?

    my question is why? as a girl i wonder
    Coz then she reminds me of my favvy TSR member: CoolCavy
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    (Original post by emilyjc17)
    Why would a girl with sexual experience be more dominant?
    What does dominance mean to you? Do you simply mean more knowledgeable?
    Why is it 'plainly attractive' for a girl to be innocent?
    Dunno why, but I do just find it somewhat attractive. The sense of innocence just has 'something' about it.

    I said they'd be less likely, didn't mean to imply that experience = dominance. But I will say it wouldn't be quite the same as with a girl who is learning and experiencing things for the first time with you. This may have more meaning for a person who doesn't have much experience themselves, because it means you get to learn together.

    I'm just trying to say that what you said is not necessarily the main/ most common reason, which is what you implied. It may just be a weird preference/fetish etc.
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    Don't really care myself, maybe cos the guys in question are quite weak minded so want to be the only male she's been sexually active with, but I don't care for false pretenses or pseudoperfectionism I like to see the real "her" with all her vices and virtues, otherwise I'm just being delusional
    So basically irdm what she's done or why
 
 
 
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