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    So we've been together for 5 years and we had a few problems earlier on which ended up in a massive argument and we was going to split up but she decided he wanted to give things another go with me. I didn't cheat or anything before you ask. It's pushing me away I'm not going to lie because I just think what more have I got to do to make this girl happy? Like what is wrong with her? What more does she want? I just don't know what to do anymore?
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    Ask her what she wants from the relationship or how she feels about you.
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    (Original post by DivenParker)
    So we've been together for 5 years and we had a few problems earlier on which ended up in a massive argument and we was going to split up but she decided he wanted to give things another go with me. I didn't cheat or anything before you ask. It's pushing me away I'm not going to lie because I just think what more have I got to do to make this girl happy? Like what is wrong with her? What more does she want? I just don't know what to do anymore?
    Does she have gender dysphoria?
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    "What is wrong with her?" Isn't it more an issue of what is wrong with you? 🙈

    Now being serious. Are you surprised that relationships take effort? Of course they do. You have to try, put effort in, to make one another happy. Is she happy now? I'm a little confused with your use of tense, you say she "didn't like you", and refer to problems early on in the relationship. But then you also give the impression that there are problems at present?
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    You could purchase a Chihuahua for her and try to buy her love that way. When that doesn't work purchase a large Gucci handbag that she can place that Chihuahua inside. If that doesn't work purchase a Honda Accord for her that way she can sit in it with the Chihuahua and by then she might actually want you or not.
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    Walk away. Plenty more fish in the sea, hard as it sounds and hard as it might be.
    If she wants to be with you she'll make it obvious and she'll fight for it, not make it difficult
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    (Original post by Mancini)
    You could purchase a Chihuahua for her and try to buy her love that way. When that doesn't work purchase a large Gucci handbag that she can place that Chihuahua inside. If that doesn't work purchase a Honda Accord for her that way she can sit in it with the Chihuahua and by then she might actually want you or not.
    lol so she and the chihuahua can drive off into the sunset and leave the poor sod alone.
 
 
 
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