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    Will getting big / muscly help me to get girls? Currently i'm 6'4 203 lbs so a bit lanky at the moment, will getting big to say 225 lbs help me to get more girls?
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    Your personality will get you girls.
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    Some like muscles, some don't. If you want to get fit and muscular then do, but do it because that's how you want to look, not because you think that's how a girl wants you to look.

    Personally, I'm not into guys with big muscles. But everyone's different, and some will disagree.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Will getting big / muscly help me to get girls? Currently i'm 6'4 203 lbs so a bit lanky at the moment, will getting big to say 225 lbs help me to get more girls?
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    (Original post by georgiaswift)
    Some like muscles, some don't. If you want to get fit and muscular then do, but do it because that's how you want to look, not because you think that's how a girl wants you to look.

    Personally, I'm not into guys with big muscles. But everyone's different, and some will disagree.
    Why do you not like guys with big muscles? I saw someone else post that on here, and they said that they thought that most big muscled guys were douches. Are you of the same opinion?
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    (Original post by Fickschlitten)
    Your personality will get you girls.
    With insecurities such as his I don't think he has a good personality.

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    Yeah probably tbh


    this is like a girl saying 'if I do loads of squats and tone my abs will I get more guys?' yes yes yes it will most likely help :yy:

    but don't think it's a necessity or anything,

    good luck!
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    (Original post by Username002.1)
    With insecurities such as his I don't think he has a good personality.

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    I was being a lenient to the OP.
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    Some girls, don't overdo it though, don't shave your chest as well
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    You will attract some Girls (I workout myself) Girls like it but other Factors like hygiene and how you dress are more important
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    From what I've observed: YES
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    (Original post by whorace)
    Some girls, don't overdo it though, don't shave your chest as well
    What's wrong with shaving your Chest lol?
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    no, face is everything
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    (Original post by Axel Johann)
    Why do you not like guys with big muscles? I saw someone else post that on here, and they said that they thought that most big muscled guys were douches. Are you of the same opinion?
    No, definitely not! Not all muscled guys are douches and not all douches are muscled guys. I just prefer someone that's cuddly and soft when we're in bed or snuggling on the sofa, whereas trying that with a guy with muscles is like cuddling a rock.
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    Yes it will...personality is bullsht
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    (Original post by aadin_)
    What's wrong with shaving your Chest lol?
    It used to be reserved only for gay men, if you're going to bodybuild pls don't be metrosexual :lol:

    I agree with what you said about clothes and hygiene, clothes or lack of can do a lot.

    Don't forget body language, take things slow don't rush, look up, make eye contact etc
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    It will help, but something that will help you even more is to develop good game. If you can get both, better yet
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    (Original post by georgiaswift)
    No, definitely not! Not all muscled guys are douches and not all douches are muscled guys. I just prefer someone that's cuddly and soft when we're in bed or snuggling on the sofa, whereas trying that with a guy with muscles is like cuddling a rock.
    Unless they're like a rugby player... Which realistically is what most guys who weightlift are closer to being. And ****, he's saying he's wanting to get to 225lbs. He isn't going to be like a rock lol. Because no mother****er can be low body fat at that weight even IF he is 6'4 unless he's roided... Which obviously is not the intention of the OP since he's a newbie. That's a big man.

    Ergo, @ OP, it will help you. Probably a lot. Especially when you also factor in how much more confident it will make you too which will also make you more attractive.
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    (Original post by whorace)
    It used to be reserved only for gay men, if you're going to bodybuild pls don't be metrosexual :lol:

    I agree with what you said about clothes and hygiene, clothes or lack of can do a lot.

    Don't forget body language, take things slow don't rush, look up, make eye contact etc
    Yeah those things are important too but shaving your Chest gives you that Aesthetic look which im sure Girls prefer than a hairy Chest
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    (Original post by TorpidPhil)
    Unless they're like a rugby player... Which realistically is what most guys who weightlift are closer to being. And ****, he's saying he's wanting to get to 225lbs. He isn't going to be like a rock lol. Because no mother****er can be low body fat at that weight even IF he is 6'4 unless he's roided... Which obviously is not the intention of the OP since he's a newbie. That's a big man.

    Ergo, @ OP, it will help you. Probably a lot. Especially when you also factor in how much more confident it will make you too which will also make you more attractive.
    Yeah that's true, I was thinking more about the guys who are all abs and biceps, if you know what I mean? I understand that OP won't look like this but I was just responding to another user who asked what I do and don't prefer. I do understand what you're saying and why you're saying it though
 
 
 
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