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    Okay so I used to be so paranoid about my girlfriend cheating on me that I would constantly check up on her, cause a lot of arguments and stuff. After a massive fall out we nearly ended up finishing but my girlfriend wanted to give things another go.

    So from now I'm just going to go with the flow and if she cheats she cheats. I do trust her and that's not what I'm saying. I'm just not going to try control or stop Cheating weather she does or she doesn't.

    What I want to know is what would you class as cheating and how would you deal with a cheat? I don't really believe in second chances and I always think once a cheat always a cheat.
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    Cheating is really anything that goes beyond harmless flirting I guess? I don't think I'd ever be able to renew a relationship with someone who had cheated on me tbh, not just the hurt itself but I'd feel like all the trust would be gone and what is a relationship without trust and respect?
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    Omg your thread history! :eek:

    You're extremely obsessed with your girlfriend (not in a good way...)
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    Make it an open relationship for both of you or end it.
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    In most circumstances cheating would be the end for me, I can't think of examples at the moment but there might well be cases where I would move on from it.

    I don't like to get too involved especially as we can't get the full picture online, but your relationship sounds seriously unhealthy. Maybe you need to stop thinking about hypothetical cheating scenarios and start thinking about whether being in this relationship is good for you both in the long term.
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    There's no point in being with her if you don't trust her.
 
 
 
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