Assuming that your best friend didn't know you had a crush on this guy, how would you react realistically?
And what if she did know you were crushing on said guy but was still swept off her feet by this guy and the chemistry is so good that she got with him despite you having a crush on him? What will be different?
I ask because before I got with my gf, her best mate had a massive crush on me. She was not my type at all, and I didn't really know she liked me until gf told me when we got together although I did have an idea. Looking back I do feel like I was very friendly with her to get points and seem attractive to her friend, again this wasn't intentional nor did I even know she really liked me, but I had a crush on her best friend instead of her, and I welcomed our 'friendship' to attract her friend. To make it worse my 'friendliness' was mistaken for flirting or should I say reciprocating any romantic attraction.
Long story short, this girl who liked me fell out with her best friend after 8 months into our relationship which was a bummer since they were quite close. She also hates me too, incredibly rude when I'm around. I don't know what to think of this. I think she's a tool. But idk I can imagine it being quite hard for her too not to mention quite a blow to her self esteem.
Do they actually matter?