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Fourth date, he wants to cook for me - is dis okai? Watch

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    Hey Guys!!

    So I have met this really cute guy and we have been on three dates together, the next will be our fourth (obviously). Aaaaanyways, I know both of us don't have heaps of money as we are students after all! I think I really like this guy, and I think he likes me as well. Anyway, he has invited me round to his this Friday as he wants to cook me dinner, btw he lives in student halls (but a different one from me). We have only had a quick kiss after dinner last week so we haven't gotten physical at all yet, which is fine as I have never done anything anyway.

    What do you guys think? After four dates is this okay? Is it normal in the student world to have dates at each others flats? I am on exchange from Australia and no one moves away for uni there and thus has more money and lives with parents. He just mentioned that he will cook a casserole of some sort and we could perhaps watch a film afterwards and have tea and biscuits (the biscuits I said I would take :3)

    We are meeting after our classes tomorrow, 5pm and then taking a slow walk down to his or through town to do window shopping before hand.

    Thoughts guys?

    By the way, we are both guys and yes - this is a gay thing
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    Go for it mate whatever floats your boat, if hes happy your happy. Good luck
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    I think it is probably an attempt to create a situation where more physical contact could happen. But it is normal for students to have dates in each others flats.
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    Yeah definitely normal.

    And also a nice gesture! Have fun!
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    (Original post by NiftyShrimp)
    watch a film afterwards and have tea and biscuits
    Netflix and chill. Nothing wrong with that.
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    Hmm, well I am just a little worried as I have never done anything physical (we are both 19) and wouldn't know what to do/or know if I even want anything to happen. I guess I just don't want to disappoint him :3
 
 
 
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