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    how do you seriously cut someone out from your life- who you used to be really close with not too long ago but they keep stressing you out and being the only cause of drama in your life?
    I still somehow always go back to this 'friend' feeling bad about any situation we have been in thats made her upset but not once has she apologised to me. And these situations are just us not talking to each other or disagreeing on something and even once she got upset because I told her I was offended by a comment she made about my personality. I'm conveying a whiny tone rn bc I'm just so done with her bs- honestly were almost 18 now and she's not growing up and i'm done with this. How do I distance myself without my inevitable guilt coming back? oh and me and her are in the same group for our coursework urghhhhh but the deadline is in one month
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    how do you seriously cut someone out from your life- who you used to be really close with not too long ago but they keep stressing you out and being the only cause of drama in your life?
    I still somehow always go back to this 'friend' feeling bad about any situation we have been in thats made her upset but not once has she apologised to me. And these situations are just us not talking to each other or disagreeing on something and even once she got upset because I told her I was offended by a comment she made about my personality. I'm conveying a whiny tone rn bc I'm just so done with her bs- honestly were almost 18 now and she's not growing up and i'm done with this. How do I distance myself without my inevitable guilt coming back? oh and me and her are in the same group for our coursework urghhhhh but the deadline is in one month
    I think is unavoidable to have contact with her if you have coursework to do together, but until the deadline try to only communicate with her for that purpose after that stop talking to her completely. It might be hard to being with but it will hopefully get better in time.
 
 
 
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