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    She sent me a text this morning asking me if "I loved her".

    We've never brought up the topic of love before, so I was just wondering does this mean that she loves me, but is just waiting for me to make the first move, I feel as if she's putting me in a tricky situation, because we've only been seeing each other for three weeks and I don't really know how to reply as I myself don't know what her emotions are towards me either.

    How do I reply?
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    Just be honest with her, tell her exactly how your feeling. Myself being a female always appreciates a man being honest with his feelings. Regardless if it's going to hurt or not, I'd prefer to know where I stand with someone rather than sitting wondering, if he does/or does not feel the same way. Communication is the way forward.
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    That's a hard one. Personally, it's not something I could discuss over text. Either way, I do think you need to be honest with her.
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    Bit weird of her after so soon.
    Don't lie or placate, just be honest. Do agree with Tiger Rag, strange convo to be having by text.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Just be honest with her, tell her exactly how your feeling. Myself being a female always appreciates a man being honest with his feelings. Regardless if it's going to hurt or not, I'd prefer to know where I stand with someone rather than sitting wondering, if he does/or does not feel the same way. Communication is the way forward.
    You are right it's best if am honest with the person, rather then try to dodge the question. Thank you for your reply.
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    Be honest, don't feel obligated to say you love her if you don't.
    Just write your true feelings (ex. "I really like and care about you, but I'm not sure if it's love just yet"). Don't force yourself to do something you don't want
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    (Original post by Inazuma)
    Bit weird of her after so soon.
    Don't lie or placate, just be honest. Do agree with Tiger Rag, strange convo to be having by text.
    I also thought three weeks was too soon as well, it could just be infatuation as she is currently on her period.
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    (Original post by lo24la)
    Be honest, don't feel obligated to say you love her if you don't.
    Just write your true feelings (ex. "I really like and care about you, but I'm not sure if it's love just yet". Don't force yourself to do something you don't want
    Thank you for the great advice.
 
 
 
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