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    I met a boy in september who did my course, he was lovely and i didn't realise it then, but he liked me.

    I didn't really think anything of it and he then got in a relationship with another girl. One and a half months later she has moved abroad, and won't return to England. He then saw me and told me he likes me, broke up with his girlfriend.

    It has been around two weeks since this time and he has said that we can't see each other publicly yet because of her friends here, as they have been gossiping and telling him that they're going to tell her that he's moved on so quickly, etc.

    He told me he really likes me, and we sort of spoke about a future (not greatly, but like we want to start dating each other). However, he said it would take around 2 weeks for it to blow over, and then we are on break from uni for 3 weeks, that means i will hardly see him over this time…

    I really like him so i'm worried that he will stop liking me over this time, as it's quite long…what do you think?
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    If you like him and he likes you then you will be dying to see each other over this time.
    Maybe you could meet in private and start a private relationship and then make it public when the time is right.
    Nothing should stand between two people who like each other so i say go for it but try to keep it private for now.
    You spoke about a future together and therefore shows that you two really like eachother.
    Hope this helped.
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    (Original post by lousmithy)
    he has said that we can't see each other publicly yet because of her friends here, as they have been gossiping and telling him that they're going to tell her that he's moved on so quickly, etc.
    Why is it of concern to him what his ex thinks about him?
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    (Original post by Asuna Yuuki)
    Why is it of concern to him what his ex thinks about him?
    It's not that, he doesn't want our relationship in a negative spotlight, and therefore doesn't want his ex's friends gossiping or jeopardising things.
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    how can he suddenly like you?
 
 
 
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