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    I had a first date the other night, we went to the pub and it went well i think. She agreed to see me again when i asked at the end of the night. However I am really stuck for something to do for a second date, the issue is that there cannot be alcohol involved this time and most places I would take a girl would include drinking.

    She did jokingly suggest something about us messing around with guitars at hers for our second date but I'm not sure about suggesting it for real. Would the implications of a date at one of our flats not suggest sex? I'm all for that (obviously) but I don't want to scare her off or anything because I quite like her.

    I guess we could just go out for food or something but I feel that's kind of mundane.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I had a first date the other night, we went to the pub and it went well i think. She agreed to see me again when i asked at the end of the night. However I am really stuck for something to do for a second date, the issue is that there cannot be alcohol involved this time and most places I would take a girl would include drinking.

    She did jokingly suggest something about us messing around with guitars at hers for our second date but I'm not sure about suggesting it for real. Would the implications of a date at one of our flats not suggest sex? I'm all for that (obviously) but I don't want to scare her off or anything because I quite like her.

    I guess we could just go out for food or something but I feel that's kind of mundane.
    Cook her dinner and watch a film at yours, doesn't have to mean sex if you don't want it to.
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    My third (I think?) date with a guy he came back to my house after the pub and we cuddled and watched movies and then he left. No sex involved...
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    Go to hers for guitar and cooking together. You can always pop out for an emergency toothbrush.
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    (Original post by claireestelle)
    Cook her dinner and watch a film at yours, doesn't have to mean sex if you don't want it to.
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    My third (I think?) date with a guy he came back to my house after the pub and we cuddled and watched movies and then he left. No sex involved...
    (Original post by Zarek)
    Go to hers for guitar and cooking together. You can always pop out for an emergency toothbrush.
    Thanks, I think I will suggest we cook/guitar at mine or hers. It's more interesting than suggesting we go out for food right?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Thanks, I think I will suggest we cook/guitar at mine or hers. It's more interesting than suggesting we go out for food right?
    Yes, definetly more interesting
 
 
 
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