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    hes certainly neater than the average. even when we were out in hotels over holidays, he cleaned the room before we left.... lol

    not hiding a body lol. how do i know... well, i just know.

    annoys me a lot that he would not show me his room just because it is substandard (to his taste!). it is bothering me so much that i want a break from this relationship wtf
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    hes certainly neater than the average. even when we were out in hotels over holidays, he cleaned the room before we left.... lol

    not hiding a body lol. how do i know... well, i just know.

    annoys me a lot that he would not show me his room just because it is substandard (to his taste!). it is bothering me so much that i want a break from this relationship wtf
    wtf indeed
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    hes certainly neater than the average. even when we were out in hotels over holidays, he cleaned the room before we left.... lol

    not hiding a body lol. how do i know... well, i just know.

    annoys me a lot that he would not show me his room just because it is substandard (to his taste!). it is bothering me so much that i want a break from this relationship wtf
    Is it anyone's birthday soon?

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    Monday just gone I tried video chatting with my bf for the first time. He refused and changed it to a phone call. When asked why, he said his room was messy. I did not quite believe that as he is a neat and clean person, but anyhow said I could wait for him to clean up his room. He was very adamant about not showing me his room and then said I was acting like a child.
    Anyhow, since then I have requested for photos of his room, but he plain out refused to with the reasoning that he sees it is not important. I explained to him it is just part of me wanting to know him better.

    He has been and has stayed over at my place most weekends.

    Am I being unreasonable to request to see his room?
    I've refused video calls because my room was messy before. It's not a big deal. Why the hell do you want to see his room anyway lol.
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    hes not a scorpio.
    no ones birthday is around soon.

    yes, refusing video calls every now and then is not big deal. but the big deal here is he has refused to even snap a photo to show me.

    he said hes looking to move out very soon, so no point in showing me his current place.
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    Bit weird to be honest. I know people whose rooms are messy yet they didn't care if other people entered theirs. Like nobody really gives a **** if somebody else's room is messy.


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    He might be tidy to the outside world but maybe he's secretly a slob and a bit lazy on his room? I mean when I'm in hotels I tend to tidy up after myself but my room is very messy.

    Maybe instead of asking for pictures of his room, try and find a way of visiting his house first? Does he still live with his parents? Can't you just say something like you'd like to meet his family?
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    Dumb request - Dumb response

    Just be honest.. say "Look im insecure there is some broad in your bed, pls show me so i can chillax"
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    he would happily let me meet his parents if i want to, but his parents live in another country.

    i agree that it was a dumb request, followed by a dumb response. but if you were in my shoes, the more someone refused to show him/ her room, the more you want to see it! lol

    okay, i would try to ask with that request. a bit tired of asking for it almost everyday since last week. wtf. i have work to do too!
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    look guys and girls, i am not suspecting anything. i am annoyed that he has been so adamant of not letting me see his place.
    i am not requesting to see anything private, eg. wallet, phone, etc. i do not have the habit of checking my these. i respect others privacy because i would be flipping the table if someone does that to me! lol
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    (Original post by SmashConcept)
    lol his room is probably gross
    how could a room be gross? is there graffiti written in *** on the walls and used condoms dangling off the chandelier like that crazy girl in that Sia video?
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    how could a room be gross? is there graffiti written in *** on the walls and used condoms dangling off the chandelier like that crazy girl in that Sia video?
    Could be. And I never noticed that about Sia's video.
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    Could be. And I never noticed that about Sia's video.
    look closer
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    Don't think he wanted to take down the BDSM whips hanging from his wall
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    refuse him the poon till he shows u the room
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Monday just gone I tried video chatting with my bf for the first time. He refused and changed it to a phone call. When asked why, he said his room was messy. I did not quite believe that as he is a neat and clean person, but anyhow said I could wait for him to clean up his room. He was very adamant about not showing me his room and then said I was acting like a child.
    Anyhow, since then I have requested for photos of his room, but he plain out refused to with the reasoning that he sees it is not important. I explained to him it is just part of me wanting to know him better.

    He has been and has stayed over at my place most weekends.

    Am I being unreasonable to request to see his room?
    this doesn't sound like it has anything to do with his room- I think maybe you should be looking at why he was so adament to not video chat on that day bc he dismissed quite well.
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    He's got Shergar in his room, stuffed and being ridden by Lord Lucan. Also stuffed.
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    he's probably just embarrassed, either by mess or something else e.g. decoration... I think if there was something up for you to worry about that would indicate cheating or something then he would have just moved/hidden it and let you see
 
 
 
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