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    So recently me and my friends were talking about sex and such, and I played along like I wasn't a virgin (when I am one). I think I felt scared that if they found out I never had sex, they wouldn't respect me or something. Has anyone else had a similar experience?
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    Lol. Yes. But honestly I couldn't care less. Most people have sex at some point in their lives. Nothing shameful about being a virgin!
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    (Original post by OllieRd1)
    So recently me and my friends were talking about sex and such, and I played along like I wasn't a virgin (when I am one). I think I felt scared that if they found out I never had sex, they wouldn't respect me or something. Has anyone else had a similar experience?
    How old are you?

    I didn't tell the guy I lost it to that I was one (I didn't lie, just failed to mention because I was ashamed). He figured it out pretty quickly though :P

    Your virginity is none of your friends' business. If you're uncomfortable then you don't have to say anything.
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    (Original post by OllieRd1)
    So recently me and my friends were talking about sex and such, and I played along like I wasn't a virgin (when I am one). I think I felt scared that if they found out I never had sex, they wouldn't respect me or something. Has anyone else had a similar experience?
    Once you say the V word, you become a loser. Ugly truth.
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    (Original post by WBZ144)
    How old are you?

    I didn't tell the guy I lost it to that I was one (I didn't lie, just failed to mention because I was ashamed). He figured it out pretty quickly though :P

    Your virginity is none of your friends' business. If you're uncomfortable then you don't have to say anything.
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    Loool sorry but if that was me, many would have disrespected me for having sex #Asians.

    Anyhow, I think its ridiculous how people judge each other on whether they have had sex or not.
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    There isn't anything shameful about being a virgin!
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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    There isn't anything shameful about being a virgin!
    Said the virgin LOL
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    (Original post by DinduCoffin)
    Said the virgin LOL
    Well there isn't! :huff:
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    Probably when I was younger but I'm not bothered now, it's my business and if anyone is weird enough to obsess over somethings minor in my life I don't want to be around them tbh

    At the end of the day it's entirely up to you what you tell them but if they're normal they'll have much more important things to worry about lol
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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    Well there isn't! :huff:
    You'll see what I mean when you get your freak on' like Kerry in Scandal with Fitz all up in hurr biz.
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    I am, and I don't care :dontknow:

    I don't mind that other people know, I'm just gonna wear the title while it still applies :lol:
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    (Original post by OllieRd1)
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    That's not bad at all, some people are in their 30s or even 40s and are still virgins :P
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    (Original post by OllieRd1)
    So recently me and my friends were talking about sex and such, and I played along like I wasn't a virgin (when I am one). I think I felt scared that if they found out I never had sex, they wouldn't respect me or something. Has anyone else had a similar experience?
    Don't feel like that would happen, you are the same person just without any sex in your life yet. A few of my mates and I are the only ones in our yr who are still virgins and most of our yr have had sex. I really don't care tbh, we're quite open about it. What's even better is that we know each others priorities, if that makes sense. I even said it in class once, somebody asked me and I was like 'Yh man I'm virgin and proud' lol and we high five because we frankly don't give a ****!
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    (Original post by DinduCoffin)
    You'll see what I mean when you get your freak on' like Kerry in Scandal with Fitz all up in hurr biz.
    Fitz is actually an A-hole with his "I am screwing your daughter..." speech. :puke::yucky: to think I liked him...

    And I'm okay thank you :blushing:
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    Nothing wrong with being a virgin.

    People who use virgin as an insult are people whose lives are so meaningless and insecure that losing their virginity is the biggest thing they're ever going to achieve.
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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    Fitz is actually an A-hole with his "I am screwing your daughter..." speech. :puke::yucky: to think I liked him...

    And I'm okay thank you :blushing:
    My homie papa Pope always be keepin' it real with them 'power' speeches!
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    (Original post by DinduCoffin)
    My homie papa Pope always be keepin' it real with them 'power' speeches!
    Tbf I haven't got that far, I had to stop because it was too distracting...but I only saw that clip. Gross

    He was also an A-hole when he told his wife she was "ornamental". Ugghhhhh
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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    Tbf I haven't got that far, I had to stop because it was too distracting...but I only saw that clip. Gross

    He was also an A-hole when he told his wife she was "ornamental". Ugghhhhh
    Jake is a hoe too.

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    You're pure. Thats absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. Sex is used by the marketeers to peddle their filth on to the populace and frankly anyone not playing the game/selling out/indulging should be praised rather than mocked. Westerners are like that though claiming to be all tolerant but they're judgemental scum in a much more deviant sort of way.
 
 
 
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