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    Im in yr11 and i've been going out with a boyfriend for nearly 18 months and he's in his second year of uni. We've never met before and barely talk on the phone as i hate making calls. I like him a lot but idk where our relationship is good/ healthy
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    I don't think it is very healthy at all, especially if you two have never met in person?! I feel that long distance is fine, but there needs to be some kind of face to face contact. Also you being in year 11 makes you 16 and him being second year university means he is 19/20. As a uni student myself, I feel that he would by now be more mature about the situation and would want to meet up in person. The age difference is problematic, but if you care for one another who am I to judge. Just be careful and make sure you know who you're communicating with, and talk about these problems to your boyfriend. Best wishes for the future
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Im in yr11 and i've been going out with a boyfriend for nearly 18 months and he's in his second year of uni. We've never met before and barely talk on the phone as i hate making calls. I like him a lot but idk where our relationship is good/ healthy
    youve been going out for 18 months and you havnt even met each other?! :eek:
 
 
 
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