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    (Original post by XMaramena)
    This.

    Although I could see someone being a little weirded out if they were being really touchy feely, stroking your face and grabbing your arse and stuff. That being said, it could be equally offputting with someone not attracted to from your preferred gender.

    I wonder,
    Gay guys, how do you feel when a girl hits on you?
    You should make a thread but then I wonder if there's enough gay guys on here to make a successful thread. Like I'm bi so I can't respond on that haha
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    (Original post by heineken)
    Its not really hate i dont think, just not a fan of riding the helmet ☺
    Lmao no. Just because he hit on you doesn't mean you're gonna have sex.

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    (Original post by Zenomorph)
    Total bs, unwanted attention is unwanted attention, stop trying to justify gay sexual harassment.
    Didn't try to justify sexual harassment either way.
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    (Original post by ivybridge)
    I answered this earlier but: it really does not bother me. I just think it's cute and I'm like, yeah, sorry I don't swing that way and the conversation just shifts to something else. It has never been an issue.
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    You should make a thread but then I wonder if there's enough gay guys on here to make a successful thread. Like I'm bi so I can't respond on that haha
    (Original post by XMaramena)
    ...god I came up with a phrase for bi people a bit like that "swing the other way" type thing. Can't remember it now. damn! It was really good too :P
    That's what it was! To "sleep on both sides of the bed" :P

    Lol you can't say that wouldn't catch on
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    (Original post by XMaramena)
    ...god I came up with a phrase for bi people a bit like that "swing the other way" type thing. Can't remember it now. damn! It was really good too :P
    Someone used to call bisexual people at my school 'gender benders' whatever the hell that means.
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    I feel flattered. When I was young, it happened quite often and I enjoyed the bantering interactions that could result. I even made some very good friends from it.
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    (Original post by XMaramena)
    That's what it was! To "sleep on both sides of the bed" :P

    Lol you can't say that wouldn't catch on
    Haha
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    I don't see what's weird or disgusting about it.
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    (Original post by ivybridge)
    Someone used to call bisexual people at my school 'gender benders' whatever the hell that means.
    Gender bender? That doesn't make sense at all. Maybe someone who's gender fluid, but not bisexual.
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    (Original post by heineken)
    Its not really hate i dont think, just not a fan of riding the helmet ☺
    Homophobia is hatred - you said you are homophobic, as such, it really is hate. A lot of gay men themselves don't like "riding the helmet" as you put it.
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    (Original post by ServantOfMorgoth)
    Lmao no. Just because he hit on you doesn't mean you're gonna have sex.

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    Im like candy to these people!

    ...you're telling me gay guys dont want anonymous sex? Okkkkk...
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    (Original post by ivybridge)
    I remember going to one when I was 16 - still don't know how I got in but anyway - and I had like 40 year old men trying to get me to sleep with them and even 30 year olds trying to grind up against me... no. Go away. Lmao
    Yeah, I don't want to stereotype but all of the decent looking guys either in looks or being 'young' were either straight or minding their own business.

    All of the 35+ were the ones like being very forward and physical, I guess it happens at other clubs as well but I tend to go on the student nights which generally has very few older people.

    Fortunately the big club in my town has 3 rooms and one just plays like 70/80s pop music so all the older men just stick to that room.
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    (Original post by ivybridge)
    Didn't try to justify sexual harassment either way.
    Then stop giving off that impression
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    (Original post by XMaramena)
    Gender bender? That doesn't make sense at all. Maybe someone who's gender fluid, but not bisexual.
    Me either - it's called stupidity :P


    http://33.media.tumblr.com/e5c756096...tm09o2_400.gif
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    (Original post by Zenomorph)
    Then stop giving off that impression
    Couldn't say I have been; stop interpreting the opposite as that.
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    (Original post by ivybridge)
    Me either - it's called stupidity :P


    http://33.media.tumblr.com/e5c756096...tm09o2_400.gif
    lol gotta love judge rinder. He's like judge judy's *****y gay cousin from england :P Oh could you imagine the two of them on a panel :P
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    It's never happened, but I think I'd be flattered and a bit awkward.
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    (Original post by HmmIsIt)
    If you're going to make a thread asking about how people feel about homo's hitting on you., atleast respect what he has to say.
    Instead of shooting insults at responses that don't paint oceans and waterfalls for your eyes.
    I said that because claiming that it's an invasion of privacy is a nonsense argument. I've never even heard feminists use that line , that when men hit on women it's an invasion of privacy. You don't have privacy in public!
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    (Original post by ivybridge)
    I have no idea why anybody assumes you are
    I have no idea either :dontknow:

    (Original post by ServantOfMorgoth)
    Haha I'm sorry.
    Lol it's okay :lol:
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    (Original post by XMaramena)
    lol gotta love judge rinder. He's like judge judy's *****y gay cousin from england :P Oh could you imagine the two of them on a panel :P
    Worryingly, yes... he annoys the hell out of me though.
 
 
 
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