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    Hi, Ive been with this guy for just over 2 years, its a great relationship... when were together. I don't know why, but whenever he goes out after work with his mates and i'm just at home or something, I start getting really anxious. Like, ill constantly be checking snapchat to try find out where he is or keep texting him :s I don't know why, but I feel jealous and left-out and feel really bad about myself (like "he has so many friends and im stuck at home"or "he doesnt want me there", but he needs his space, right?
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    I think you need to involve yourself in more outside of your relationship, look for hobbies and interests that you enjoy and distract yourself
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    Not really no.

    I think you need to invest time in yourself and your friends. Your relationship shouldn't be your whole world, it's not healthy. You should both be able to have separate lives away from each other and still feel secure in the relationship. Though granted if you want to be more involved with your boyfriends social life then ask him to involve you. But it should be because you want to be involved, not because you're jealous or insecure.
 
 
 
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