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    So basically for as long as i can remember i have always felt different wearing bikinis or getting changed in front of friends. This is because of my labia as it is bigger than a normal 'designer vagina', i am 15 and have been thinking about getting a labiaplasty, I've broken up with boyfriends because I've felt like they have wanted something i am un able to give them. Now im with this great guy who doesnt pressure me into anything and although he doesn't know about it specifically he knows that there is something i am un willing to share with him. i believe that if i told him he would be understanding about it but it upsets me that i do not wish to do anything with him even if that's not sex because he makes me so happy. i am also worried that it will be uncomfortable when i decide to have sex in the future because i find it uncomfortable now to wear certain underwear. i live in Manchester and was wondering if anyone else has had this surgery who was under 18 and could recommend a surgeon near Manchester that i could visit.
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    So basically for as long as i can remember i have always felt different wearing bikinis or getting changed in front of friends. This is because of my labia as it is bigger than a normal 'designer vagina', i am 15 and have been thinking about getting a labiaplasty, I've broken up with boyfriends because I've felt like they have wanted something i am un able to give them. Now im with this great guy who doesnt pressure me into anything and although he doesn't know about it specifically he knows that there is something i am un willing to share with him. i believe that if i told him he would be understanding about it but it upsets me that i do not wish to do anything with him even if that's not sex because he makes me so happy. i am also worried that it will be uncomfortable when i decide to have sex in the future because i find it uncomfortable now to wear certain underwear. i live in Manchester and was wondering if anyone else has had this surgery who was under 18 and could recommend a surgeon near Manchester that i could visit.
    Where in Manchester? What side?
    Also why are you insecure of something that is completely normal? What is wrong with it? Are you just going off what u deem to be accepted in society and things like porn because they are very unrealistic and if you follow them you will be insecure of stupidest things u shouldn't be and follow ridiculous expectations.
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    Where in Manchester? What side?
    Also why are you insecure of something that is completely normal? What is wrong with it? Are you just going off what u deem to be accepted in society and things like porn because they are very unrealistic and if you follow them you will be insecure of stupidest things u shouldn't be and follow ridiculous expectations.
    i live around greater manchester but i am able to travel into manchester foor surgery, and ive always felt uncomfortable about it, all my friends seem to be fine with themselves and are comfortable wearing bikinis but when i went to france with school i felt so uncomfortable about it, thankyou for your reply
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    So basically for as long as i can remember i have always felt different wearing bikinis or getting changed in front of friends. This is because of my labia as it is bigger than a normal 'designer vagina', i am 15 and have been thinking about getting a labiaplasty, I've broken up with boyfriends because I've felt like they have wanted something i am un able to give them. Now im with this great guy who doesnt pressure me into anything and although he doesn't know about it specifically he knows that there is something i am un willing to share with him. i believe that if i told him he would be understanding about it but it upsets me that i do not wish to do anything with him even if that's not sex because he makes me so happy. i am also worried that it will be uncomfortable when i decide to have sex in the future because i find it uncomfortable now to wear certain underwear. i live in Manchester and was wondering if anyone else has had this surgery who was under 18 and could recommend a surgeon near Manchester that i could visit.
    You aren't as different as you think. Lady gardens come in many varieties. I'd give it until you're at least 18 because you need to finish developing and it's a serious surgery to undergo. It involves a very delicate area. In truth there's no perfect vagina, vagina's aren't show pieces. Please don't judge yourself by porn standards, it's not healthy.

    I'd let your boyfriend judge for himself. The more you worry about what he'll think, the less of a chance you give him. If he hasn't seen it then you don't know what he thinks of it. He's the only one that can decide his own opinion. Most boys probably don't care what it looks like down there anyway.

    It's not a reversible surgery so it's not a decision to make lightly. You might change your mind further down the line and regret it. It's not something you can get back. The inner labia are sensitive and can bring a lot of pleasure too. Plus your natural vagina is unique to you. If you have a designer vagina god knows how many other women might look near identical to you down there.

    If you are serious about going ahead with it, I'd recommend going to your doctor first. He might be able to refer you to someone, or make good recommendations on surgeons and clinics. Honestly it seems like this self-esteem issue is about more than your lady parts.
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    i live around greater manchester but i am able to travel into manchester foor surgery, and ive always felt uncomfortable about it, all my friends seem to be fine with themselves and are comfortable wearing bikinis but when i went to france with school i felt so uncomfortable about it, thankyou for your reply
    Honestly it could be induced paranoia due to high unrealistic expectations and ridiculous expectations. Trust me there isn't a lot to be paranoid about.

    Also, i meant like what is your most local hospital? MRI? Traff Gen?
 
 
 
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