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    Im Muslim and im starting to like a white guy. we met on TSR and we talk a lot, hes really handsome and nice to talk too and i find him really cute and attractive. he find me attractive too and we talk all the time. we look forward to each others messages on TSR. im starting to fall for him i can feel it. we dont live that far from each other and are planning to meet up.

    because of my religion i would never be with someone who isnt the same religion as me im fairly religious but i cant help the fact that im falling for him.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Im Muslim and im starting to like a white guy. we met on TSR and we talk a lot, hes really handsome and nice to talk too and i find him really cute and attractive. he find me attractive too and we talk all the time. we look forward to each others messages on TSR. im starting to fall for him i can feel it. we dont live that far from each other and are planning to meet up.

    because of my religion i would never be with someone who isnt the same religion as me im fairly religious but i cant help the fact that im falling for him.
    Do you want advice or...
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    what should i do?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Im Muslim and im starting to like a white guy. we met on TSR and we talk a lot, hes really handsome and nice to talk too and i find him really cute and attractive. he find me attractive too and we talk all the time. we look forward to each others messages on TSR. im starting to fall for him i can feel it. we dont live that far from each other and are planning to meet up.

    because of my religion i would never be with someone who isnt the same religion as me im fairly religious but i cant help the fact that im falling for him.
    Is this about me? Just asking cause I'm the guy in a similar scenario

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    What would Allah do?
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    What would Allah do?
    your right, i should put my faith first
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    What would make you happier?

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    (Original post by Andy98)
    Is this about me? Just asking cause I'm the guy in a similar scenario

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    no andy haha
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    Simple advice: if ya really want what's best for you and your deen, tell him you can't talk to him anymore, part ways and stop talking to him on every platform that you have him on e.g. phone, apps, TSR, cos otherwise you're just goin to end up bein another person whose deen slipped away as fast as they 'fell' for someone. Seen it happen to too many people, and now all they care about is 'their man' or 'their girl' and forgot about Islam - it's proper sad to watch em just become this empty person with a prospectively dark future, this person who don't care and just say 'yh I'll become religous later' when chances are they won't...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    your right, i should put my faith first
    No,
    Go where your heart goes!!!!


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    (Original post by CleverSquirrel)
    No,
    Go where your heart goes!!!!


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    i would never abandon my faith
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i would never abandon my faith
    Faith and religion are man made!!
    Go with UR heart!! (Only if u think he wont cheat you)
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    You already seem reluctant to go against your religion, so I think you've already made your decision

    Also, come on, this is only TSR. Smh how do people fall in love here when you can't even tell if that's their real personalities...
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    (Original post by Serine Soul)
    You already seem reluctant to go against your religion, so I think you've already made your decision

    Also, come on, this is only TSR. Smh how do people fall in love here when you can't even tell if that's their real personalities...
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    I agree with Ghazali. going where your heart goes wont save you in the grave. Maybe this is your test in this word. This is the hardship you're meant to go through before ease. It does say in the Quraan 'Verily, with hardship comes ease' so maybe this is the test you go through to improve your faith. Its hard to cut someone out but if you do it with the right intentions and for the sake of Allah and your religion, Allah will help you too (inshallah). And as hard as it may be to do. Do it. And Allah inshallah will reward you and make things easy for you. Make dua. It is a very powerful weapon and Allah will grant what is best for you x Good Luck
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    Liking someone isn't a crime. I was asked out by a non-Muslim White guy. I may have dated him if I was attracted to him. At the end of the day, it depends on how religious you are. If you're religious, its up to you and if you're not even that's up to you. Point being is do what you want to do.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i would never abandon my faith
    Would abandon someone you love? What if its your only chance? Not that it is, but still what if?


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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i would never abandon my faith
    What kind of advice do you actually want here?

    You're saying you really want to but won't. What do you expect us to tell you?


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    follow either your head or your heart
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    (Original post by Squire1998)
    What kind of advice do you actually want here?

    You're saying you really want to but won't. What do you expect us to tell you?


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