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    it's like everyone but me are already as close as family...
    i have friends in univ (outside my hall), but i'm total outcast here
    i don't think anyone hate me or anything, but i'm just... ignored, unwanted, everyone is reluctant and has no desire to do anything with me.
    i used to try to do greetings, small talk and stuff with flatmates, but i gave up last month and started to not saying anything from my mouth

    makes me want to just live alone and isolated next year without this unnecessary thought and awkwardness

    anyone experienced the same?
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    **** them? I mean forget about them lol
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    I didn't particularly get along with my flat mates in first year, especially towards the end. But so what? It doesn't mean you should hide away and isolate yourself there is no sense in that. You got bung in with random people, it happens sometimes. Live with friends next year and it will be better.
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    (Original post by patrickstarfish)
    it's like everyone but me are already as close as family...
    i have friends in univ (outside my hall), but i'm total outcast here
    i don't think anyone hate me or anything, but i'm just... ignored, unwanted, everyone is reluctant and has no desire to do anything with me.
    i used to try to do greetings, small talk and stuff with flatmates, but i gave up last month and started to not saying anything from my mouth

    makes me want to just live alone and isolated next year without this unnecessary thought and awkwardness

    anyone experienced the same?
    I'm not close with my flat, and half the people that I know in my whole block aren't close with them either. 1st year is almost over, so it honestly doesn't even matter!

    As I say, the best kind of shade is when you act like they don't even exist!
 
 
 
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