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    me and my boyfriend are both 15. he wants to do stuff but we havnt even kissed yet. weve been dating for about 4 months.
    is it to soon ???
    is it wierd ???
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    How can you be dating if you've not kissed? (If it's religious reasons, then apologies).

    It's entirely up to you. But I would suggest kissing first, y'know. Don't rush into anything you're not comfortable with.
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    How can you be dating if you've not kissed? (If it's religious reasons, then apologies).

    It's entirely up to you. But I would suggest kissing first, y'know. Don't rush into anything you're not comfortable with.
    Oh dear, is it actually compulsory to kiss if you're dating? I dated my girlfriend for a month and didn't kiss her o_0.... we're not together anymore xD.... Is it necessary to kiss her?
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    (Original post by Someboady)
    Oh dear, is it actually compulsory to kiss if you're dating? I dated my girlfriend for a month and didn't kiss her o_0.... we're not together anymore xD.... Is it necessary to kiss her?
    One month's not too bad. Idk though, it seems a bit strange to be labelled as boyfriend and girlfriend yet not have shared even one kiss.

    Then again, it entirely depends on a person and their own views.
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    It is definitely weird to do stuff without kissing; in fact I'd say it's strange to label yourself as being in a relationship when you haven't kissed.

    We have evolved so that we kiss in order to test our sexual compatibility. It's the primary test as to whether or not you're as compatible as you thought. Plus kissing is a way of showing love, affection, and passion.

    If your boyfriend wants to do sexual things but won't kiss you, that raises some concerns imo. Kissing is one of the most basic parts of a relationship and if he hasn't done that after four months but is willing to do other sexual things, maybe you should talk to him? You're obviously not happy about it or you wouldn't be making this thread, so communicate with him and explain how you feel.
 
 
 
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