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    Genuinely. I know I have no right to go into her phone or anything, but I once took selfies on her phone and decided to send them to myself (her camera's much better) and I saw conversations where she was sending pictures of her well, you know, not to just one guy, but to multiple guys. She sent videos of her doing stuff to many guys too.

    Idek what's going on with her. She can go sleep with whoever she wants idc, but exposing herself to abuse in such a way by sharing videos that could so easily be blown up all over the internet...

    She's 20, I'm 18. Our parents were very (and still are) very strict on us and if I was to go and approach them about it, she'd be physically abused, no doubt.

    Can anyone help me out?
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    Damn.. you could try talking to her yourself? At 20 its really her choice though
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    If your parents are going to physically harm her definitely don't tell them, frankly it sound like you'd both be better off out of the house. She's 20, as long as it's all between consenting adults you can't control her or tell her what to do, if you feel that her reason for doing this is some insecurity or other problem, talk to her, let her know that you're worried about her well being and then decide what to do depending on what she says
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    Can you speak to a counsellor or more understanding older family member (who is not your parents)?
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    You could try and bring up a conversation in which involves someone's images being leaked onto the internet, to scare her. To be honest, you sister sounds like the type of person that will only learn the hard way.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Genuinely. I know I have no right to go into her phone or anything, but I once took selfies on her phone and decided to send them to myself (her camera's much better) and I saw conversations where she was sending pictures of her well, you know, not to just one guy, but to multiple guys. She sent videos of her doing stuff to many guys too.

    Idek what's going on with her. She can go sleep with whoever she wants idc, but exposing herself to abuse in such a way by sharing videos that could so easily be blown up all over the internet...

    She's 20, I'm 18. Our parents were very (and still are) very strict on us and if I was to go and approach them about it, she'd be physically abused, no doubt.

    Can anyone help me out?
    Just make sure you are supportive and there for her. Always.
 
 
 
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