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    Okay so, this will sound far-fetched and as though I'm trolling. I'm really not.

    Okay....so I think i just saw my partner in an x-rated film. I had been watching porn for a few hours...and I came across one particular clip which aroused interest.

    It was like a "chubby girl" type thing. Without going into too much detail (don't want to get banned or break rules), it was a clip of the girls neither region and the man point of view penetrating and ejaculating.

    Buzz are thing is, the clip shows no faces, just the vagina and penis....and while, it sounds crazy for me to say this, it looks like her vagina. In the sense I sort of know what sort of unique features her vagina has, and the pubic region looks similar/the skin on the thighs is distinct.

    As for the sounds,money are fairly standard. Should I be right to assume I'm worrying over nothing or do I question any further?

    I checked user upload details and it doesn't yield much. Just that he's from a particular area of the country. There is sort of whispering or light talking, I can make out its a northern accent but nothing more.
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    It could be something she did before she met you, if indeed it even is her.

    Don't see any benefit really of accusing her without any real proof.
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    You haven't got any proof. Just leave it because even if it is her it was from before you met her, so there's nothing you can do about it now. If it isn't her, she'll likely be offended that you're accusing her without proof, so it's best to leave it.
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    What would you think / do if it is her?

    It may well not be: I'd only be able to have a good chance of identifying one partner like that, and my 'number' is rather higher than one.
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    (Original post by georgiaswift)
    You haven't got any proof. Just leave it because even if it is her it was from before you met her, so there's nothing you can do about it now. If it isn't her, she'll likely be offended that you're accusing her without proof, so it's best to leave it.
    We've been together for two years so the fact the video's were uploaded three months ago and seven months ago respectively, we were actually together.

    My real concern is if it is actually her, unfortunately, I didn't see a face, all I saw was the vagina, and there is probably thousands of people with similar looking genetalias. All the while, I still think it's her. What if it is her though and she is having sex with some other bloke behind my back-.with no way of me finding out?
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    (Original post by unprinted)
    What would you think / do if it is her?

    It may well not be: I'd only be able to have a good chance of identifying one partner like that, and my 'number' is rather higher than one.
    If it was her I'd be rather unhappy and disappointed with her, and with that consider separation. We are engaged and been going out two years. So the fact these photos have been uploaded within the time frame we've dated- makes me a bit sick.
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    (Original post by JBLondon)
    It could be something she did before she met you, if indeed it even is her.

    Don't see any benefit really of accusing her without any real proof.
    It might well be something that happened before we were an item of course, however, the upload date was recent enough that we were together when they were uploaded.

    Which begs the question, if it was her, then she's been having sex with other men and filming it, which is wrong on many levels. I'm not sure any man should accept that, let alone me.

    The real curiosity for me, is the not knowing. I don't want to be accusatory because I have no proof it was her, but I also have no proof it wasn't.
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    I also have no proof it wasn't.
    If you go around around trying to prove negatives you'll just drive yourself mad mate. Genuinely you need to be almost 100% certain it's her before you say anything, otherwise it WILL ruin your relationship.
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    Okay so, this will sound far-fetched and as though I'm trolling. I'm really not.

    Okay....so I think i just saw my partner in an x-rated film. I had been watching porn for a few hours...and I came across one particular clip which aroused interest.

    It was like a "chubby girl" type thing. Without going into too much detail (don't want to get banned or break rules), it was a clip of the girls neither region and the man point of view penetrating and ejaculating.

    Buzz are thing is, the clip shows no faces, just the vagina and penis....and while, it sounds crazy for me to say this, it looks like her vagina. In the sense I sort of know what sort of unique features her vagina has, and the pubic region looks similar/the skin on the thighs is distinct.

    As for the sounds,money are fairly standard. Should I be right to assume I'm worrying over nothing or do I question any further?

    I checked user upload details and it doesn't yield much. Just that he's from a particular area of the country. There is sort of whispering or light talking, I can make out its a northern accent but nothing more.
    To be honest a lot of people will have simmilar looking down theres. I deffinately don't think accusing her of anything is the way to go. If you really want to bring it up just to get it out of your head you could have a little giggle about how you were watching stuff and it reminded you of hers. Unless there is anything else to lead you to think she is unfaithful i wouldn't worry about it and deffinately wouldn't accuse her and make her feel uncomfortable for no reason.

    Are you sure you arent just nervous about being engaged and all and looking for negatives? It's something most people do at some point in their relationships.
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    If it was her I'd be rather unhappy and disappointed with her, and with that consider separation. We are engaged and been going out two years. So the fact these photos have been uploaded within the time frame we've dated- makes me a bit sick.
    Even if it is her, which it probably isn't, then things can be uploaded years after their creation.

    The next time someone's sex tape is published, you can always ask 'would you ever...' and see what they say.
 
 
 
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