What the bloody hell should I do?

zitwep

Hey guys,

Well to cut the story short, this girl started poking me over facebook and she is my friend's friend and I don't know her. I asked her why she randomly pocked me as I didn't know she existed, she replied "I came across a pic and thought you were sexy" so then I just asked her a few things she asked me a few things and then I said "Is the time where we say 'nice talking to you' or the time when we exchange numbers?", she replied with just her number and a :smile:

face. Now I have no idea what to do? Call her up? The thing is that she is 3 years older than me (I am 18 and she is 21 and hot) and I don't know if she knows but I don't want to raise the question because I don't know what she bloody wants. To gain time I just told her that I'll call her when my IB exams are over later this week, what should I do guys?

Thanks.

so a hot older girl tells you she thinks you're sexy and gives you her number?
text/ring her!!
assuming you're interested!
just be casual about it...

Reply 4

toddlers crossword

oh and if its your friends friend is probably much less likely to be someone trying to get money out of you, why not ask your friend about her?

Reply 5

OP

It's my life

I would be very weary of this, I had something like this before where a girl randomly messaged me saying I like your pic etc? When I checked her profile out to see what I was dealing with, it turned out she gets naked on webcam but charges people for viewing it.

Hehe she is a friend's friend, I think that wont happen but I always keep an eye on such things.

My exams left are just French so I just told her that to think about it. I did ask my friend, she is just a normal girl that she went to school with, she couldn't tell me much more.

I don't even know if she is that interested.

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She gave you her number and she thinks you're hot? And you still can't work out whether she's interested?

Wow, i guess Darwin strikes again...

Reply 7

OP

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She gave you her number and she thinks you're hot? And you still can't work out whether she's interested?

Wow, i guess Darwin strikes again...

Hehe I bet you thought a girl was hot and had no interest in her?

ok, you didn't give her your phone number.

But this is the first time a girl approaches me, a girl friggen 21 when I am 18, I just don't know how to handle it.

Call her up, talk about me life and talk about hers, then ask to meet up and then see? Sort of the thing I should do or what?

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zitwep

Hehe I bet you thought a girl was hot and had no interest in her?

ok, you didn't give her your phone number.

Say what now? :confused:

Reply 9

zitwep

Hehe I bet you thought a girl was hot and had no interest in her?

This does not make sense.

However yoda believes she is looking for a quick shag. If you find her attractive then go for it.

Reply 10

Llamaaa

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I'd ask your friend about her, see what she's like, if she is prone to lunacy and so forth. If she gets the all-clear, give her a call :smile:

Reply 11

OP

What I meant was that you always see people in the street and think "Hey, that person is hot" but the next minute you forget about that person. That's what I meant but I can't say that for my situation because she gave me her number.

Talking to my friend now.

And dear Yoda, what reasons make you believe so? :smile:

Reply 12

Yoda knows all. This is just the impression yoda gets from reading it. And fortunately yoda is never wrong - he just does not know how to be wrong.

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OP

I shall tell and hail to the great Yoda if this really happens.

But I still doubt it. Does Yoda have any more words of wisdom about how to get this whole thing started?

Reply 15

Alcohol may be the lazy man's way. However she can pay for her own bloody drinks. It depends on zitwep's style, but yoda would ask her come over with chocolate and pick him up. All should easy after that.

Reply 16

OP

I will do so, Yoda you speak true words of wisdom but why chocolate? Oh yeah is it because it's orgasmic for some girls? lol. The thing with me is that either I drink myself to oblivion or end up making others drink too much and have them puke.

Reply 17

Yoda likes chocolate. And being annoying to carry it would be best to leave it at home - an easy excuse to come back. Unfortunately, being her chocolate, you may also have to share it.

Yoda must also advise doing shots. You are not trying to enjoy drinking, it is just something to do while you chat. And get her drunk. Don't compete who can drink the most either. Let us also bear in mind you cannot drive back, so walking to a close bar may be useful.

Reply 18

OP

Haha, I am lucky that in Switzerland there are good trains and moonliners. I shall keep the Great Yoda updated.

PS. On a more serious note, I know that everyone think I should call her, but the 3 year age difference kinda paralyzes me, I really don't know what I should say when she picks up her phone.

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