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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    this is like my dream with my teacher ffs, I think OP isn't being serious though
    I am secretly your maths teacher.

    I KNEW THIS WAS YOU
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    will see u on front page of bbc news soon
    AHAHAHAHA OMFG!! Like Molly'o'Malia did
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    Any tips for sleeping with my **** chemistry teacher, since we're on this topic?
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    he fingered you lmao so typical of school
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    If this story is true, which isn't the most impossible thing ever to believe. Some teachers do engage with students sexually so it isn't that "out" there.

    The guy obviously doesn't value his job cuz if he did he wouldn't have ****** her **** and ***** along with **********. If the guy ruins his career no one can't he didn't have a choice to do those actions. OP is not the only person at fault. Him and her were both willing parties. She didn't do those actions to herself. He did.
    If I were you OP i wouldn't take it any farther. Your teacher just liked the screwing around and likes to screwed while on the job.
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    What does he want to do? What does he suggest?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm a girl, I'm 18 and I'm in year 13 at my sixth form. There's a new teacher, he's 22 and he only just graduated recently. He looks around 19/20 though, a lot of people in my year thought he was a new student when he joined! Anyway, my school does 1-to-1 revision sessions for students that are behind on work. I'm a bit behind with maths so my school decided I should take these revision sessions.

    It turned out he was assigned as my mentor. So like the first few sessions were just completely normal and we discussed about the topics I was weak at and so on. After that, we just had this one conversation (I started it out of curiosity) about which university he went to and the experience etc. That got us talking and he told me what to expect from uni and so on etc etc. Anyway that conversation made us friends and we started talking. I can talk to him like a friend since he looks my age and is part of my generation. We talk in slang with each other! He's fairly good looking too.

    Eventually, it got to the point where half of the sessions were us having a chat and the other half was us actually going through work. I made an excuse that I may need maths help when I'm stuck with homework, and so I got his number. I called him to ask him for help (didn't really need help), and then after that we just had an hour long chat. She knows I like him, and I know he finds me attractive. However I get the feeling from him that he doesn't really want a relationship as this could heavily ruin his career. We spend like half the time flirting in our sessions. Last week I dressed really seductively to sixth form (wore a fairly tight skirt and a cold shoulder top), did my hair and what not, and it happened. We ended up cuddling and making out for like the last 20 minutes of the session. He undone my top two buttons, was grabbing my breasts, and even fingered me. I met him outside of work yesterday, and he told me he likes me too but he's **** scared that he could lose his job and teaching license. I completely understand his point of view of course.

    I feel really guilty. I know he didn't want all this to happen. He strictly kept it to work and even when I used to try to talk to him flirtatiously, he used to just divert the conversation back to work. I'm scared this will ruin his career. Should I still pursue him? Or should I back away? I mean, I'd have left sixth form next year anyway. I do want him. I mean I am 18, I'm an adult! He's only 22. He looks, talks and dresses like guys my age. It doesn't feel wrong at all, it just feels normal as if I'm seeing someone my age. He's got his own place and I've been a few times. Should I continue with all this?
    By the sounds of it you do kind of like him which I completely get, I have been attracted to/flirted with a young teacher before (he was only a temporary teacher so has left now). BUT having any sort of relationship with a teacher, which can be considered inappropriate, is illegal as he has a position of power over you, and even though you are technically an adult, in the eyes of the school system you are still a minor and will be until you leave. Another thing to add which most people don't know but you are technically still under the schools care until the 1st of September so if you did want to get with him you would have to wait till after the 1st. This also means that the school can still expel you during the summer even though you are no longer attending school. If you do get caught and expelled universities hold the right to withdraw your offers so if you are applying to uni that might be something you want to consider... not only his job/future but yours as well.

    Anyway apart from all the rules and stuff you just have to think is this really worth it? you are only 18 and have so much to look forward to and so many more boys to meet/be with so just look at the bigger picture that's all! he may seem worth it now but will he be in a few months time?

    Hope that helps!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I don't want to ruin his career. And also, both of our happiness lies in this. People who are commenting just stay away are making it sound really easy. I really really like this guy, it's so hard for me to just completely cut off everything we have.
    I know that you like him but please just think about how much resentment and hate he will have towards you if what you have together ends his career. He probably wont want to speak to you or see you for that matter so just WAIT! its still frowned upon having relationships with recent ex students and teachers have been known to be fired from their jobs for having relationships like these but its not illegal... so I guess its up to both of you to decided if its worth the gamble.
 
 
 
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