By 8months you would have been friend zoned.(Original post by Anonymous)
So, I've been speaking to this girl for 8 months now. We always talk on the phone and meet up and have a good time. She has known I like her for ages and happily accepted a valentines gift from me too. Although she has never done anything forward or flirty towards me, she has not discouraged my behaviour and has got my hopes up by continuing to speak to me and meet up with me fully aware of how I feel about her. She has always makes plans to see me and enjoys watching a movie and 'cuddle up'.... However, yesterday I asked her out thinking that she must like me if she had been speaking to me non-stop for 8 months, but she told me that its best we just remain friends....
Am I right to be annoyed with her? I got mugged off!
If you don't make a move during the first 2-3 months, thats it.
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- 10-03-2016 03:29
- 10-03-2016 07:14
8 months? Muppet you got to get in fast so she doesn't see you as a friend, once the label sticks it's hard to reverse.
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- 10-03-2016 10:12
Dont buy presents for girls with an expectation its for something in return, then you can avoid the disappointment. If she likes your company, then she likes your company. Not saying they cant be influential, but get rid of the expectation.
- 10-03-2016 10:17
Well you're certainly never 'entitled' to anything, she may well have known that you like her and she should have told you she didn't like you in that way so you don't continue to pursue her romantically however, it now sounds like you were only being friends with her with the expectation of getting something in return which is pretty disrespectful.
- 10-03-2016 10:25
keep moving 4ward