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    I still like my boyfriend whom I broke up with him first but he begged for me back then he decided to break up with me cos of various reasons... :/ I'm still confused to why he did because I still have feelings for him and I don't think I can move on.. I told him how I felt and he said he thinks we shouldn't date. maybe he meant cos of the long distance and lack of commitment as he's going to college.. but we were happy before.. everything was perfect.. we still talk.. but as friends only.. he only replies after school and it's an ongoing process and im assuming he still wants this to work but not get into a relationship to get it ruined and all.. im sending him a few gifts for his birthday and surprising him with a birthday video I put together.. hopefully he'll appreciate the effort but at the same time I don't want him coming back to me just because of materialistic reasons... I'm confused

    10% part of me tells to let go but 90% tells me to hold on cos I know somehow it'll work out.

    someone help me!
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    this thread is so confusing? you dont want him back but you do?
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    Let him go. You broke up with him and he moved on. It's not his fault that you changed your mind and want him back. Even if you do get back together, things won't be the same as both of you will be worrying about the other breaking up with you.

    Stop pursuing this ended relationship and move on.
 
 
 
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