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    Would you mind if a gay friend called you by a pet or affectionate name?
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    In private no as long as they know where I stand. In public I would mind because people are shallow and I need to keep up appearances.
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    go right ahead sugar :flutter:
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    nope - I'd find it funny so maybe I'd encourage it - I call my fellow straight friend "boobear" and he thinks it's funny so there you go
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    I personally wouldn't care/mind..
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    I have, and have had, gay friends that do. Doesn't bother me. I call my male friends "my love" or "darling" more often than I do my female friends :lol:
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    Fair enough. Thanks for your responses. I'm terrible for this. I started off doing it sarcastically and now I'm almost compelled to say things like "hey hon".
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    It's not a problem ducky.
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    Don't care so long as we've established where we stand. If it's just banter, banter.
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    (Original post by Kvothe the arcane)
    Would you mind if a gay friend called you by a pet or affectionate name?
    I don't really like want to haave a gay friend. So that wul be a problem in itself. And no jokes either or kidding around either. No matter gay or straight.
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    Friends a friend init, don't see why there would be a problem


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    I wish I have a gay friend.
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    Would probably be a little annoyed, but no big deal.
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    (Original post by whorace)
    In private no as long as they know where I stand. In public I would mind because people are shallow and I need to keep up appearances.
    I too would probably mind in public. I once had an older friend hug me and I felt so awkward. I faked it all the way but people were staring....

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    go right ahead sugar :flutter:
    Fo' sure :flutter:

    (Original post by ByronicHero)
    I have, and have had, gay friends that do. Doesn't bother me. I call my male friends "my love" or "darling" more often than I do my female friends :lol:
    Cool, cool. I'll carry on calling you what I do then.
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    It's not a problem ducky.
    Fair enough, chicken .

    (Original post by jamaal17)
    I don't really like want to haave a gay friend. So that wul be a problem in itself. And no jokes either or kidding around either. No matter gay or straight.
    May I ask why? Do you fear people might think you gay if you had one? I felt similarly when I was in the closet.

    (Original post by drandy76)
    Friends a friend init, don't see why there would be a problem
    They might feel like their masculinity is threatened or just feel uncomfortable. I suppose it depends on the relationship between the friends and the context.

    (Original post by Dnkz7)
    I wish I have a gay friend.
    Awww. Why's that? I have a few. Honestly, you're not missing much. Bar our sexuality, we're not that different.
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    No, I'd find it funny, so long as it isn't too conspicuous.
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    Of course I would mind. I didn't spend six years in Evil Medical School to be called "sugar".








    ...but really, they can go ahead. I wouldn't mind at all.
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    (Original post by Kvothe the arcane)
    Would you mind if a gay friend called you by a pet or affectionate name?
    If its in a group of friends or in private, then no, i would even take it as a compliment. In public though, i would, but even if a girl called me "hun" in public with people we didnt know it would be kind of weird.
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    (Original post by Withengar)
    Of course I would mind. I didn't spend six years in Evil Medical School to be called "sugar".








    ...but really, they can go ahead. I wouldn't mind at all.
    oooh doctor W it's me chalfonts again. could you give me some more of that cream sweetheart ?

    thanks sweetcheeks.
 
 
 
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