A girl I am interested in just described me as 'nonchalant, perhaps too much so. Just in the way you are'.
I didn't show a lot of interest in her to begin with, despite her doing so, so perhaps this is what she is referring to. But if she means it generally is this a negative? Am I being too unenthusiastic? We chat about deep stuff a fair deal, and I now show a lot of interest but I worry sometimes that because I have a very dry sense of humour and am quite shy (although this generally comes across as simply being reserved and possibly boring?
Is 'nonchalant' a negative description? Watch
- Thread Starter
- 10-03-2016 17:11
- 10-03-2016 17:12
She's saying you are very calm. She's being pretentious, tell her I don't like the word so I'm not rooting for her.
- 10-03-2016 17:18
she's saying you don't give a ****.