Turn on thread page Beta

Is 'nonchalant' a negative description? watch

    • #1
    • Thread Starter

    A girl I am interested in just described me as 'nonchalant, perhaps too much so. Just in the way you are'.

    I didn't show a lot of interest in her to begin with, despite her doing so, so perhaps this is what she is referring to. But if she means it generally is this a negative? Am I being too unenthusiastic? We chat about deep stuff a fair deal, and I now show a lot of interest but I worry sometimes that because I have a very dry sense of humour and am quite shy (although this generally comes across as simply being reserved and possibly boring?

    She's saying you are very calm. She's being pretentious, tell her I don't like the word so I'm not rooting for her.

    she's saying you don't give a ****.
Submit reply
Turn on thread page Beta
TSR Support Team

We have a brilliant team of more than 60 Support Team members looking after discussions on The Student Room, helping to make it a fun, safe and useful place to hang out.

Updated: March 10, 2016


students online now


Exam discussions

Find your exam discussion here

Should predicted grades be removed from the uni application process

The Student Room, Get Revising and Marked by Teachers are trading names of The Student Room Group Ltd.

Register Number: 04666380 (England and Wales), VAT No. 806 8067 22 Registered Office: International House, Queens Road, Brighton, BN1 3XE

Write a reply...
Reputation gems: You get these gems as you gain rep from other members for making good contributions and giving helpful advice.