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    I asked a girl out who I had known for a long time. I always wondered if she liked me, I even asked on here and the general feel was the only way to know was to ask her. So after two years of knowing her, I asked her out. I just asked whether she would like to go out for lunch sometime. Her response was 'thankyou' repeatedly. And that was it, not a yes or a no? Anyway so I decided to leave it at that. For the rest of the day she seemed fine with me, nothing much different in the way she interacted with me, but then we didn't see eachither for two days and the next time I see her she is totally different. She has been very b****y with me, ignoring me, moody with me, basically have a bad attitude towards me. Short answers and being cold towards me. This has been going on for weeks, and yet every now and again she pops into being her 'normal' self... I have remained the same, but I have kept my distance when she has shown the attitude. This is no coincedence, she is fine with others. Anyway, I have noticed since this from the corner of my eye, her glancing and staring at me when she thinks I can't see her, and I sometimes just randomly ask how is she and she replies in tone like a little kid. Bizzare. She will then go back to being horrible. Girls, did I do something wrong? I purely asked her out for lunch that was all, I haven't mentioned it again is it me or her?
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    Bad move taking advice from TSR.

    Most of us have never been outside in the real world.


    But I would advise you to go and ask her out again.
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    It's not your fault, you've done nothing wrong. Try following up on your request from the other day as maybe she was just a bit shy. If she still acts funny with you after that, she's not worth it.
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    (Original post by georgiaswift)
    It's not your fault, you've done nothing wrong. Try following up on your request from the other day as maybe she was just a bit shy. If she still acts funny with you after that, she's not worth it.
    I normally would and have done in the past but honestly I have never come across behaviour like it. The way she has been is like I murdered her pet cat or something lol. It makes asking her again a bit awkward lol 😁
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    that is a childish behaviour, don't ask her again without getting a mature response from her.
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    Sounds stupid. Mind games

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    I normally would and have done in the past but honestly I have never come across behaviour like it. The way she has been is like I murdered her pet cat or something lol. It makes asking her again a bit awkward lol 😁
    If it's that bad then don't ask her out again. Move on, you deserve someone who's much more mature and who respects you.
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    lol dont waste your time on someone like that
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    lol dont waste your time on someone like that
    Nah also found out she has a bf so that answers alot
 
 
 
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