Why? Really upset =(

I broke up with my ex 2 months ago and am still in the process of trying to get over him, i still have feelings for him tho! I jus found out that he has been flirting with his ex, not jus any old ex, but the one he kissed while he was into me but before we were goin out, she assumed that they were back together but that wasnt the case for him. He told me it was a drunken mistake, that she didnt compare to me and we ended up goin out. I think now that he is tryin to get back with her and im sooo hurt! It doesnt help that his friend told me a few days ago that my ex was missing me! Urgh, im upset and confused and have a uni exam tomorrow and i cant concentrate on my revision!
I jus looking for some words of comfort/perspective i guess... :redface:

Thank-u for reading xo

Reply 1

Ginger_Rogers

7

Argh, that's a hard situation. What you are gonna have to try and do is put this to the back of your mind, at least til tomorrow. The situation can wait until Thurs, the exam can't.
People deal with break ups in different ways. He may be feeling really down and just wanting female attention (male egos and all that :p:

) so he is flirting with somebody who he knows will give him the desired attention.
My best advice is to just go with the flow, see what happens. Do you want to get back with him?
Sorry I couldn't be more of a help!
x

Reply 2

username47781

20

Time is the only healer, in the end you will wonder what you saw in him, it's his loss if he wants to go pursue his ex. Plenty of time to find another guy.

Reply 3

Nicky!

people can be so rubbish. He really is being strange and inconsiderate.

If i were you, i would have an hour of madness (cry,scream, hate) then get the books out and channel your rage into study time.

Last year, i heard two of my best friends being really horrible about me, and telling someone a downright lie. I cried into the blonde hair of my friend for half an hour, and managed to really get them out of my head. Had an exam in the afternoon. I managed to translate my hurt and anger into an A*.

You can really do this, just don't give in to him, you can't let him ruin your exam, this will affect your entire life, and i know it's a cliche but he really isn't worth it.
Sorry i couldn't be much help, best of luck with your exams.

Reply 4

katypetal

I agree with all the above!! and you are sooooo much better off without him!

He doesn't deserve to have a girlfriend like you! he didn't seem to give you any respect first time round (drunken mistake??)

Try to have little revision sessions, then call up your girlfriends for a a good old gossip, always makes me feel better.

Its gona be hard right now as there are still feelings but eventually one day you will actually wonder what you saw in him!

and lastly from me to you;grouphugs;

Reply 5

Angrybanana

11

Little_Button

I jus found out that he has been flirting with his ex, not jus any old ex, but the one he kissed while he was into me but before we were goin out, she assumed that they were back together but that wasnt the case for him. He told me it was a drunken mistake, that she didnt compare to me and we ended up goin out.

I don't mean to be harsh, but how do you know he isn't saying the same thing to his ex about you? It's a bit of a cliche. It sounds like he's bouncing between both of you and enjoys playing mind games. He's certainly got you both hung up on him as it sounds like he's also stringing his ex along too. If he was that into you what was he doing kissing her, you have to ask yourself.

Reply 6

Little_Button

OP

7

Thank-u for replying everyone! I dont think id get back with him, esp after this! Im pretty sure he knows id be upset tho and thats why im hurt! Angry banana you could be right =( I believed him when he told me he had absolutely no feelings for this other girl and was jus interested in me, now i dont know if he meant it!

Reply 7

username47781

20

I think he was hoping to have his cake and eat it.

Why? Really upset =(

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