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    He's very professional as I work in a professional setting. I've noticed he's always around me so definitely enjoys my company but never knew if it was anything more than that. But he constantly tries to find out if I find him attractive and he's not the type to need an ego boost.My collegues were suggesting I fancied another collegue and he kept saying 'I'm hotter though aren't I'. And he will often say stuff like 'I think I'm reasonable looking, I'm a good worker, I've got an attractive personality'. He's not arrogant it's obvious he's looking to see if I agree. He has low confidence in his own way so maybe he's just looking for a confidence boost. But could it mean he likes me? Because of the professional setting its hard to tell as he wouldn't be able to flirt properly. He remembers everything I say that's for certain but doesn't ask me many questions eventhough he talks to me a lot.What do you guys think? And do you think I should try and hint that I bs him attractive so that if he does like me he can make a move and if he doesn't than its not too awkward.
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    Hm, well sounds like he might be interested. Just ask him for his number or think up something you can invite him to do with you after work. Like dinner, drinks, concert etc. If you're too shy to ask for his number then find an excuse to give him yours, for example you might be having an interesting conversation and you can say something along the lines of "I have to get back to work but would love to carry on this conversation later on! Do you want to grab dinner later on?"
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    He's very professional as I work in a professional setting. I've noticed he's always around me so definitely enjoys my company but never knew if it was anything more than that. But he constantly tries to find out if I find him attractive and he's not the type to need an ego boost.My collegues were suggesting I fancied another collegue and he kept saying 'I'm hotter though aren't I'. And he will often say stuff like 'I think I'm reasonable looking, I'm a good worker, I've got an attractive personality'. He's not arrogant it's obvious he's looking to see if I agree. He has low confidence in his own way so maybe he's just looking for a confidence boost. But could it mean he likes me? Because of the professional setting its hard to tell as he wouldn't be able to flirt properly. He remembers everything I say that's for certain but doesn't ask me many questions even though he talks to me a lot.What do you guys think? And do you think I should try and hint that I bs him attractive so that if he does like me he can make a move and if he doesn't than its not too awkward.
    Following Kantian Ethics, using the Categorical Imperative you must act universally i.e. everyone does the same thing in the same situation.
    You must tell him the truth about how you really feel.
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    In all seriousness though probably tell him you want him to stay away if you don't like him.
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    He's already asked for my number and personal email for work purposes.
 
 
 
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