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    Basically my best friend lives in Australia and I was introduced to this guy he knew one day on Skype. We hit it off started talking etc. Its been about 8 months and we Skype all the time and we get on really well. He has started saying all the feelings **** and all the right cute **** that lets be honest every girl wants to hear. He made me feel like I was actually something to him and I was different to him. So then my best mate went round his place, bearing in mind they lived a few hours apart so hardly see eachother. He logs onto this guys laptop to look at facebook and finds chats between this guy and two other girls saying the same stuff about feelings as he did to me. My mate took screenshots and sent them to me and it hurt like a *****.

    This along with countless other times this guy has bragged to my best mate about getting with girls. I don't know what to do, because i cant tell this guy that my best mate told me because they have a lot of mutual friends and it will really **** things up for my best mate and that's not fair. But I cant keep going with all these lies that seem so true. I just want closure and I want him to know that I know what he has done and how much of an ******** he is. I just don't know how to tell him i know without dropping my best mate in it.

    Any Suggestions lol??

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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Basically my best friend lives in Australia and I was introduced to this guy he knew one day on Skype. We hit it off started talking etc. Its been about 8 months and we Skype all the time and we get on really well. He has started saying all the feelings **** and all the right cute **** that lets be honest every girl wants to hear. He made me feel like I was actually something to him and I was different to him. So then my best mate went round his place, bearing in mind they lived a few hours apart so hardly see eachother. He logs onto this guys laptop to look at facebook and finds chats between this guy and two other girls saying the same stuff about feelings as he did to me. My mate took screenshots and sent them to me and it hurt like a *****.

    This along with countless other times this guy has bragged to my best mate about getting with girls. I don't know what to do, because i cant tell this guy that my best mate told me because they have a lot of mutual friends and it will really **** things up for my best mate and that's not fair. But I cant keep going with all these lies that seem so true. I just want closure and I want him to know that I know what he has done and how much of an ******** he is. I just don't know how to tell him i know without dropping my best mate in it.

    Any Suggestions lol??

    Thanks
    I m afraid you cant tell him you suspect anything without having told him the whole story really unless you end things with him without giving a reason why
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    I know what you did last Summer
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    his balls jump up and down when he lies, cup him and you'll be able to tell
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    just stop talking to him
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    blank him completely, when he messages you loads if you confront him he'll be like whatever. make him think its something else the reason why youve stopped talking to him i.e. fallen for someone better than him
 
 
 
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