Does my ex think I'm gay?! Watch

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My ex, who I had a ridiculously intense relationship with, and who I would like to get back together with, has made some bizarre comments the last couple of times I've seen her.

I told her that I had been 'seeing someone' for a time at uni, only for her to ask whether it was a guy... I wondered whether this was because I said 'someone', perhaps with an ambigious intonation or something. We ended up having sex that night so I disregarded it as meaning nothing.

Then, chatting the other day, she called me 'vogue' and 'dahhhhling'.

The guy she was seeing at uni after we broke up was a rugby 'lad', which is far from my personality. I'm quite shy, reserved, emotional and care about the way I dress/look, but I never considered this to be suggestive of homosexuality at all.

Are these just jokes? She's suggested we spend more time together, which may not be a romantic thing admittedly, but we had a hugely physical relationship and have slept with one another since, so I fail to see how she considers me camp/gay in any sense?
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When the rugby guy banged her she probably joked you were an effeminate gay, she's inside joking you about a guy inside her while she's trying to make you get inside her. This is complex.
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"Rugby lads" are the most touchy feely overtly gay straight group of men i have ever come across so jokes on her bruhh
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(Original post by whorace)
When the rugby guy banged her she probably joked you were an effeminate gay, she's inside joking you about a guy inside her while she's trying to make you get inside her. This is complex.

You mean she's trying to keep me interested whilst sleeping with some other guy?
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It sounds like she's just having a joke with you. She obviously knows that you aren't gay as you dated and slept together lol. Try not to think about it too much.
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