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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Perhaps. Although, couples do reconcile after cheating, it is possible, so surely this can't completely destroy the respect?
    Anybody I've heard of who's done this has just ended up breaking up later on.
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    This is run of the mill breakup behaviour. Unpleasant but it happens. Sounds like you would probably be best just to move on and draw a line. Guess there is just a chance that you'll end up married with two kids if you persist..
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Who knows - nostalgia maybe? Or remaining feelings. I haven't made any effort to stay in contact with her, but she keeps checking in, keeps suggesting meetups etc. Has now said it would be "nice to spend more time together".
    to be honest, no I would not have much respect for you if I could treat you like dirt and you still came running back the second I dropped you a text... you're not going to stop having feelings for this girl until you break off contact and make yourself move on and if you try and rekindle the relationship it's going to end the same way it did before
 
 
 
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