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im a bit confused about this guy

i reckon he likes me - ive got off with him and the other day we were at a gig and he kept holding me gently from behind and kissing the side of my face so nice and gently it was delightful.

when we are in a social situation he's so nice to me and talks loads and he does this thing where he brings up stuff we've done together ALL the time, like turning to me and being like 'oh remember when...' and he doesnt do that with anyone else. we get on wonderfully and i think he likes my personality not just whatever else.

however any kissing etc is done in secret and we both deny it vehemently if anyone talks about it.

but then at school hes so... distant and like. i want to say aloof but i dont know not quite. hes quite dismissive, it gets a bit awkward which it NEVER does in a social situation. its just a world apart hes like 2 different people.

and i would enjoy being his girlfriend and want to talk to him on the topic but the way he is at school is really offputting.

so. does he like me? im so uncertain.

Reply 1

username47781

Maybe he's a bit shy when around people, why don't you ask him out?

Reply 2

at_amber

Rock Fan

Maybe he's a bit shy when around people, why don't you ask him out?

oh yeah i dont want to ask him out because of the aloof stuff. its putting me off. i dont like rejection.

Reply 3

username47781

How do you know until you try, he must think something of you if he keeps kissing your neck and stuff.

Reply 4

Yoda

He clearly does like you. Ask him out while you two are alone.

Reply 5

matthew.swallow

Yoda

He clearly does like you. Ask him out while you two are alone.

I think I disagree with that. I mean if you set the trend by asking him out privatley he will assume the relationship can remain private. Much better would be to ask him out in front of some mates and then you will see his true reaction. If he ignores you then and says no- why would you wana go out with him?

Also... where was the third person Yoda?

Reply 6

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Yoda forgets to speak in the third person repeatedly. (h)
I think that was second person lol :s-smilie:

Reply 7

Becca <3.

Maybe he feels he has to keep his "rep", when at school.
I don't think you should ask him out.. yet. Mainly because you said you don't like rejection. I think you should at least confront him though. Ask him where this is going. You don't have to be all "indepth" and serious. Just let him say his reaction and go from there.

Good Luck.
Becca <3.