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    I'm just constantly worried that my girlfriend will cheat on me. I'll admit I'm so insecure about myself and I do think she can do a lot better than me. Is just really bothering me though because I actually do really trust her and I don't think she ever would cheat on me but I've always got this thing a the back of my mind saying she will.

    It's really bothering me and stressing me out. I'm just scared that it will happen and also that she will never ever tell me if she did and I'll be there in a relationship thibking everything's fine when she's actually cheated. What do I do?
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    I'm just constantly worried that my girlfriend will cheat on me. I'll admit I'm so insecure about myself and I do think she can do a lot better than me. Is just really bothering me though because I actually do really trust her and I don't think she ever would cheat on me but I've always got this thing a the back of my mind saying she will.

    It's really bothering me and stressing me out. I'm just scared that it will happen and also that she will never ever tell me if she did and I'll be there in a relationship thibking everything's fine when she's actually cheated. What do I do?
    "What do I do?" - sounds like you're desperate and ready to do something, even if it means listening to one of the TSR members. Seriously, stop worrying. If she will cheat on you, you'll have a chance to move on and look for someone better.

    At the moment everything is alright, why would you ruin that? I know what you mean but if you're going to be worried all the time you'll just become more insurance than before and it will probably lead to a break up. Even if you're constantly thinking about it, also think about the positives. She's in a relationship with you because she wants to.

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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm just constantly worried that my girlfriend will cheat on me. I'll admit I'm so insecure about myself and I do think she can do a lot better than me. Is just really bothering me though because I actually do really trust her and I don't think she ever would cheat on me but I've always got this thing a the back of my mind saying she will.

    It's really bothering me and stressing me out. I'm just scared that it will happen and also that she will never ever tell me if she did and I'll be there in a relationship thibking everything's fine when she's actually cheated. What do I do?
    If she hasn't cheated on you before, then there's no reason to be worried she's still with you bc she likes you and if you continue making her happy then she definitely wouldn't do anything to upset you!
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    If you have that feeling then I would say there is no trust between the two of you
    I would say sit them down and have a serious conversation about that
    But that's just my opinion
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    Alls you can do is lay the boundaries trust you're judgement. The rest is gamble. You cannot control somebodies actions

    You recognise you are insecure, maybe over time it will fade
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    I think you need to talk to her about how you feel. If she hasn't cheated before and she's given you no reason not to trust her, I'd say you're being unreasonable.

    Remember she's with you for a reason.
 
 
 
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