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    I am really not sociable with only a few friends. In fact I will go to great length to avoid social situations. But I am good otherwise, handsome, intelligent, athletic etc.

    Can someone like me get girls? I guess my problem will be not able to meet enough girls?

    Would a sociable girl want someone like myself?
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    Absolutely not, you have to make an effort.
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    Why would you want a sociable girl if you're not sociable? That makes no sense XD Wouldn't that just be horrible? to have someone drag you out to places to 'socialise' when that is the last thing you want to do?
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    How did you meet your 'few friends'?

    Meet girls that way.

    I also would suggest physically speaking to them. They seem to like that, perhaps even as much as being handsome and intelligent and athletic!

    Or there's Tinder.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I am really not sociable with only a few friends. In fact I will go to great length to avoid social situations. But I am good otherwise, handsome, intelligent, athletic etc.

    Can someone like me get girls? I guess my problem will be not able to meet enough girls?

    Would a sociable girl want someone like myself?
    In real life? Hell no unless you looked like a male model in that case girls would be chasing you if not then you'd have to use alternatives online dating, tinder etc.
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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    Why would you want a sociable girl if you're not sociable? That makes no sense XD Wouldn't that just be horrible? to have someone drag you out to places to 'socialise' when that is the last thing you want to do?
    Good point. I am not aiming for sociable girls but there just happen to be a pretty sociable girl that I like. In fact she is everything I look for in a girl except that she is too sociable for me. She is also attracted to me I feel but have so far avoided doing anything social with her. Not sure if it will work out. Have not expressed my feelings for her yet but she most likely knows what is going on.
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    Work, Internet dating etc. mind you, dating itself tends to be a bit of a social activity.
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    I believe that's what sites like TSR are for
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    I'm not all that social myself however, if u want to meet girls then you will have to make an effort. However, if it's just a girl then if you already knew or talk to one in your few friends or in lesson thats close or next tp you, then you dont have to be social but pay more attention to her and make her like you.
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    (Original post by Serine Soul)
    I believe that's what sites like TSR are for
    For what?
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    For what?
    No socialising, general loserdom and having online crushes :yes:
 
 
 
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