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    So my boyfriend and I agreed to communicate more as we are now long distance, but it's still single sided. I always tell him the details of how my day was, what I did, who I was with etc. And he doesn't.
    Whenever he goes out, he never says where or who with and when I do ask, he just says he was busy or "nothing much".

    Is it normal for guys to be this vague or am I just being paranoid?

    He met this girl a few weeks ago in a hostel thing (they're both lodgers) and since they got kicked out they've being "hanging out" since (I know this bc when we went on a dare a few days ago, she was literally texting his phone every few seconds to the point he had to use my phone to reply as he has no credit) u_u I don't even feel like a girlfriend, I feel like an option
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    (Original post by thecaramelcat)
    So my boyfriend and I agreed to communicate more as we are now long distance, but it's still single sided. I always tell him the details of how my day was, what I did, who I was with etc. And he doesn't.
    Whenever he goes out, he never says where or who with and when I do ask, he just says he was busy or "nothing much".

    Is it normal for guys to be this vague or am I just being paranoid?

    He met this girl a few weeks ago in a hostel thing (they're both lodgers) and since they got kicked out they've being "hanging out" since (I know this bc when we went on a dare a few days ago, she was literally texting his phone every few seconds to the point he had to use my phone to reply as he has no credit) u_u I don't even feel like a girlfriend, I feel like an option
    He is cheating on you for sure. I am sorry that you have to go through this but he is just using you as an option or side course. I think you need to let him go and look to other great guys who treat you in a special way.
 
 
 
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