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    Hi.
    I am a guy who is very affectionate and I am not shy about showing my affection to the girl i'm with , I like kissing her and cuddling with her and patting her hair and body and telling her how much I love her.

    I am afraid it will turn off some girls.
    Because these qualities are percieved as feminine or being a "Beta" male ( a term which I hate by the way ).
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    I have a feeling most girls are gonna reply with "yes, I love this" and you'd better believe them :yep:
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    I'm all for affection, but I don't know about someone "patting my hair and body".
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    Why would it?
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    (Original post by Vibroxitrtxi)
    Hi.
    I am a guy who is very affectionate and I am not shy about showing my affection to the girl i'm with , I like kissing her and cuddling with her and patting her hair and body and telling her how much I love her.

    I am afraid it will turn off some girls.
    Because these qualities are percieved as feminine or being a "Beta" male ( a term which I hate by the way ).
    I don't think it would be a turn off unless the girl is uncomfortable with it.
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    Response: Yes I love it when guys do this.
    Reality: He's too soft.
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    (Original post by whorace)
    Response: Yes I love it when guys do this.
    Reality: He's too soft.
    I'd go with this answer
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    This is one of those 'extent to which' things...
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    (Original post by Katarvi)
    I'm all for affection, but I don't know about someone "patting my hair and body".
    I mean, i love putting my hand inside the hair of the girl and patting the back of her head.
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    (Original post by Mayhem™)
    I'd go with this answer
    Just listen to the girls in the other thread talking about how they like a guy who pushes them around, granted no one likes an outright jerk but roughness is sexually attractive.
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    (Original post by Vibroxitrtxi)
    Hi.
    I am a guy who is very affectionate and I am not shy about showing my affection to the girl i'm with , I like kissing her and cuddling with her and patting her hair and body and telling her how much I love her.

    I am afraid it will turn off some girls.
    Because these qualities are percieved as feminine or being a "Beta" male ( a term which I hate by the way ).
    this is what came to my mind

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    (Original post by littlenorthernlass)
    Why would it?
    Because according to the "machos", men shouldn't show their affection and love.
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    (Original post by Vibroxitrtxi)
    Hi.
    I am a guy who is very affectionate and I am not shy about showing my affection to the girl i'm with , I like kissing her and cuddling with her and patting her hair and body and telling her how much I love her.

    I am afraid it will turn off some girls.
    Because these qualities are percieved as feminine or being a "Beta" male ( a term which I hate by the way ).
    I'd love that so much!! I love affectionate guys and all my friends say the same
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    (Original post by Vibroxitrtxi)
    Because according to the "machos", men shouldn't show their affection and love.
    Well they should. A manly man who shows affection and care would make most women swoon to the floor, I'd imagine.
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    What do you mean by "patting"?

    I mean... I'm pretty sure thats what people do to their pet dog?
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    (Original post by Vibroxitrtxi)
    I mean, i love putting my hand inside the hair of the girl and patting the back of her head.
    Then what you need is a Cat...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'd love that so much!! I love affectionate guys and all my friends say the same
    Yeah I mean , I hate this "macho" mentality where we guys shouldn't be affectionate and loving.
    Screw that, I want to show the girl I'm with my love and affection.
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    (Original post by PillsIV)
    What do you mean by "patting"?

    I mean... I'm pretty sure thats what people do to their pet dog?
    Yeah, I mean like I love patting the head of my dog.
    I love doing that to girls too .
 
 
 
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