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    I'm not coping well.
    We broke up at the beginning of January due to constant arguments, mostly from her part as I hate conflict. I broke up with her, instantly regretted it and then tried to fix things and she didn't want to. She wanted to be friends, I couldn't be so we haven't spoken in over a month now.

    I miss the old her, not the person she became. I'm just having trouble getting over her. I really want her to contact me, I feel like the past month has just been waiting out for her to speak to me, is that bad?

    I was a decent boyfriend, but recently found out she's been sleeping with the guy she used to sleep with before we met, makes me feel like I just wasted my time for them to potentially end up together anyway, which sucks.

    Any advice would be amazing.
    Lol mate, you should be glad you got out of that relationship as soon as you could. You need to forget about that no good cheating slut and find yourself a new girl asap. When you have a new girl, you will quickly forget about your slut of an ex gf.

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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm not coping well.
    We broke up at the beginning of January due to constant arguments, mostly from her part as I hate conflict. I broke up with her, instantly regretted it and then tried to fix things and she didn't want to. She wanted to be friends, I couldn't be so we haven't spoken in over a month now.

    I miss the old her, not the person she became. I'm just having trouble getting over her. I really want her to contact me, I feel like the past month has just been waiting out for her to speak to me, is that bad?

    I was a decent boyfriend, but recently found out she's been sleeping with the guy she used to sleep with before we met, makes me feel like I just wasted my time for them to potentially end up together anyway, which sucks.

    Any advice would be amazing.
    It's easy to romanticize about something once it's over. We only tend to remember the good times, but you broke up with her for a good reason. Breaking up hurts, however you need to get your chin up and start moving forward. Otherwise you will get left behind.
 
 
 
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