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I've become attatched to somone I know a relationship wouldn't work with watch

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    Hey, To cut a long story short I've been seeing this guy for a few weeks now and there is definitely a connection. He's admitted to liking me as I have to him. Because he has just come out of a seven year relationship he still needs time to heal and wouldn't get in a relationship with anyone. We have become very intimate and often have sex, which is fun. But personality wise he's too 'rough' for me. I suppose you could say he was a 'bad boy' and I am the complete opposite. My friends and family do not want me getting too close to him, but I just can't help my attraction. It's not as though he even treats me nicely, he can be really crude at times but I still find myself wanting his attention. He's quite clearly controlling and everything is on his terms. I just feel I've lost the real me and I'm hoping he'll change. Every bad thing about him I try to make good. He really likes me, but he's not over his ex and it's emotionally painful for me. I could comfortably say if I didn't have lust for him I'd find it easier to let him go. But I just can't keep away. I don' want to be a **** buddy because I am worth more and also deserve better. Any advice? Thank you.

    shouldve thought of that before you gave over your vag to someone whose not even that into you. itll be even more difficult for you to get him to like you in a genuine and more respectable fashion. sort it out.

    Please explain how you have become more attached? Was it through spending time together? Him being controlling or was it the sex?
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