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Miss-sparkles
i dont know what to do to convince him i can be nice all the time.

Any help appreciated


...be nice all the time?
Start trusting him?
Reply 3
two sound suggestions above
i no how u feel i had the same prob wiv my bf with me being jealous and stuff. ok in my case he has just dumped me and fancies her but to be honest u need to trust him and if u need to vent mean things about her find a friend to do it with so u dont upset him by doing it arond him. i was like that and could never say wat i meant i started writing things out before i tlked them over with him so i knew what i would say. if u dont mind me asking why cant you be friends with him if u break up? my ex is now my best mate.
u dont have 2 be nice all the time if your in a relationship it just makes things seem fake in my opinion. hope this kinda helps sorry its a bit long.
john!!
two sound suggestions above


;yes;
Reply 6
He dosent know how he feels about you anymore?! *Warning Bells Sound Loudly*.


If you cant be *perfect* all the time (who can?!) for him.. and if he cant learn to let some things go and not over-react to everything.. do you really think your so good together anyway?
It's not about perfection. Its about common decency and kindness. The OP obviously has issues. Maybe neither of you two shouldn't be with anyone til you sort your problems out. At the very least, you two shouldn't be together.

I'd hate to have a girlfriend like the OP. Little girls need to learn what love is, maybe question if it even exists. You love him, yet you treat him so bad all it takes from him to fancy another girl is her being NICE to him!?

I find it laughable that you even think you love him. If you lubbed him, you'd be a better girlfriend. Treat him nicely, and he will do the same. If you treat him bad you push him away and you only have yourself to blame.