My bf really annoys me. Ive never had coldsores but he gets them and i dont want to catch them. In the past ive noticed a red sore in the corner of his mouth but let him kiss me anyway thinking it was nothing, i brought it up and he said it was a cold sore and that he tried not to kiss me on that side. Another time he had one he agreed not to kiss but then later on he was about to give oral sex (i dont even like it but he likes giving it) so told him not to go down there with it and he just got annoyed calling me a passion killer and that you cant catch it that way.
Yesterday i noticed a red mark on his lip but thought maybe it was from shaving so kissed him throughout the day. Today its an obvious cold sore but why doesnt he just tell me when he gets one or try to avoid kissing? Its always me who has to be on the look out as he gets them regular.
Is it too much for me to ask. Is it me thats being obsessive as he just doesnt see the issue. Ive probably caught the virus off him by now will be a miracle if ive not.
...or just paranoid?