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just curious....

Just curious really - to all you people who have been in year plus relationships...how much time a week / month do you spend doing 'fun' activities? (trying to be descrete here! but you know what I mean!) :p:

lol. every day

I can't claim to have been in a relationship for 1 year. But I was in a relationship that lasted 7 months... which ended a couple of months back. It didn't help that we lived in seperate places as I go to boarding school but origionally we didn't have sex for about 2months, then whenever I was home we were at it like rabbits, and then towards the end it was a bit less but normally still atleast twice a week when I was home- more if we could; although we stopped going out our way just to go back to one of our houses (or other places) and have sex.

God I hope that is what you meant by fun activities cause otherwise i just made myself look like an idiot :smile:

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Reply 3

Meep!

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Every night/day when we're together :p:

I like sex.

Um, I hope you MEAN sex by 'fun activities'... otherwise I've just made myself look like the horny fool I actually am.

Reply 4

Marianne

Been together 4 years in June.

I want every day, he wants once a week. It's very annoying but hey, watcha gonna do?

Reply 5

Fluent in Lies

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Marianne

Been together 4 years in June.

I want every day, he wants once a week. It's very annoying but hey, watcha gonna do?

You got yourself a defective man.

Reply 6

alicejb

OP

matthew.swallow

I can't claim to have been in a relationship for 1 year. But I was in a relationship that lasted 7 months... which ended a couple of months back. It didn't help that we lived in seperate places as I go to boarding school but origionally we didn't have sex for about 2months, then whenever I was home we were at it like rabbits, and then towards the end it was a bit less but normally still atleast twice a week when I was home- more if we could; although we stopped going out our way just to go back to one of our houses (or other places) and have sex.

God I hope that is what you meant by fun activities cause otherwise i just made myself look like an idiot :smile:

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Thats is what I mean't !

Reply 7

Fluent in Lies

2

Long distance relationships make this hard to answer.

Reply 8

alicejb

OP

Marianne

Been together 4 years in June.

I want every day, he wants once a week. It's very annoying but hey, watcha gonna do?

Okay thats alot less than us.......

Reply 9

alicejb

OP

Fluent in Lies

Long distance relationships make this hard to answer.

Your right - hadn't thought of that....

I guess I after a kind of comparison to two people who see each other each day

Reply 10

Meep!

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Fluent in Lies

Long distance relationships make this hard to answer.

Not at all! Just answer by counting the time you're actually together. That's what I did!

Reply 11

Louise88

We do it a few times whenever we see each other. We see each other two to three times a week.

Reply 12

alicejb

OP

do you think almost everyday, sometimes more than once a day, somedays for a couple of hours or more is excessive?

Reply 13

mousey

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Every day i see him, that's a lot when we're at home not much at all when we're at uni. Been together 5 years. xx

Reply 14

Apricot Fairy

16

We see each other every day, probably have sex every other day. We haven't been together that long though.

Reply 15

Llamaaa

15

I'm in a long distance relationship, but when I stayed with my boyfriend for a month in December in his flat it was pretty much daily except the last week when I fell ill (still not better :frown:

) But then when he came to stay in my house in March for a month, we only had the opportunity about 5 or 6 times. I think if we were together all the time it would be about 5 or 6 days a week.

Reply 16

alicejb

OP

we both go to the same 6th form. we do it most days at his house after 6th form as no one get in until 7. quite often do it at lunch time there as well

Reply 17

AngelOfAges

I live with my boyfriend and we've been going out for 2 and a half years. We have sex most days that real life lets us. As we're both uni students and work at the union at night it means about 3-4 times a week. It sucks wanting to but being soo tired and knowing you've got an early start the day means that you can't.

Reply 18

Scarlett_Jewel

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I've been with the boy for coming up to 19 months and been living together for 9 months. We have sex whenever I want to; up until ~2 months ago that was pretty much every day. But recently, with his finals, my first set of exams i've been serious about, and other problems, money etc. I've just not been in the mood so it's once every few days. My lack of interest has now turned into a game where I'm seeing how long he'll hold out without sex until he wants to talk about it to try and gauge how big a deal it is for him. Poor guy.

When it's a LDR though, as it will return to being next year when he's working in London, it'll be a case of basically spending the whole weekend in bed.

If you're worried that you don't have sex often enough, just initiate it more often.

Reply 19

The Sharpest Lives.

I've been with my guy for about 3 years, and at the beginning it was pretty much all the time anywhere, then after about a year there was a lull in activity so to speak, and now its just whenever we feel like, couple of times a week.

just curious....

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